who believes in the idea that if a love is meant to be it will come back to you even if u lost it once before?

Question

Im talking about loving a person - like the cliches that say, whats for you wont go past you or if you love someone set them free......

Answer 1

if you love something set it free, if it doesn't come back...hunt it down and kill it

Answer 2

I truely believe in the fact that if you are truely in love with the person you are meant to be with for the rest of your life it will always return. In the vows that bind one another you are together for better and for worse, richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do you part and for true love that has no false hood. My fiance and I have had many many troubles in our relationship but if we are ever fighting we are both so miserable that neither of us can stand it and we fix it as soon as possable. I almost lost him in the beginning because he thaught he was in love with two women. When he looked at me and looked at her he saw the difference. Love is unconditional and stronger than anything in this world or the next. Love truely does make the world go arround and Love... True Love will always survive in the worst gails or storms that there are to get through. Love never dies. It only blooms more with time. I live as full testiment to that. As to the whole if you love them you will set them free phrase... It doesnt work. Because if they love you then they wont allow themselves to be freed. I tried that once and before I could finish saying it I had changed my mind. I could not manage to break his heart. I never will. I am with the one person that I am going to spend the rest of my life with. I hope that everyone can find a love like the one I have. So in answer to your Question I BELIEVE In the idea that if love is meant to be it will come back to you even if u lost if before.

Answer 3

Thats a little over sentimental. If your setting someone free than that implies that they dont love you. I think that we can love a number of people over the course of a lifetime and when we meet someone that makes the hairs stand up on the back of our necks, that makes us go all funny when they walk in the room amd all that jazz - it is ultimately down to a chance encounter - the school our parents sent us to, a job we got, somewhere we went. I honestly dont think that you can say anything is meant to be - but its a nice idea!!

Answer 4

if it is meant to be then yes. But sometimes I think losing them is just a learning experience, so you are better prepared for the true love.
Some cultures believe they may not come back in this life thats why we are doomed to repeat it, like reincarnation. You have to get it right before you can move on.

Answer 5

I also believe in fate and destiny. I believe that fate sets you and the other person on the path to meet, but once you do meet then it's up to you what happens...you decide your destiny.

However, I also believe that sometimes people may be at different places in their lives and when fate intervenes, one of the other may not be ready for the relationship. I think that sometimes fate may step in again, but I don't think it will keep doing this until you both suddenly realize that you were meant to be together. I think it's up to you to open the door once fate knocks on it, and I believe that it's possible to miss your opportunity.

That's my two cents worth!!!

Answer 6

I don't believe it (that idea) one bit ...

Would you come back to someone who didn't even show enough interest in retaining a relationship with you to bid for your affections, and just "let you go" at first whim?

Or would you choose the one who let you know in word and deed that they really wanted you? The one who kept trying to win or keep your affections because you mean so much to them?

Think about it: if your beloved pet dog got lost, wouldn't you call the local shelters and put up "Lost" posters? Or would you just "let them go" believing they'd come back if it was "meant to be"?

It seems kind of wimpy to just "let go" ... Like anyone who let's someone "go" so easily must not have had much going for them passion-wise in the first place.

I do believe in "what comes around, goes around Karma". I definitely do not believe in the idea of "fate" or "kizmet" because I cannot accept that with our mercurial thoughts, feelings and experiences, we are mindless little robots marching to the tune of some existentital piper's tune.

If you love someone, don't "let them go" ... Let them KNOW!!

Great question. Always question the clichés ;)

Answer 7

I would like to think so, and you could say I have experienced it. I happened to meet my husband again after a year. But maybe the fact that we did meet again set off the emotions, I`m inclined to think that the last is the case. But you will never know.

Answer 8

i firmly believe in it. I had a long term partner but we split ten years ago. I see her on and off now even though we are both in different relationships. I know, instinctively, that one day we will be together again. It's not wish fulfilment, it is an inner knowing that this person is destined to be with me in the end.....I think its called true love.........................

Answer 9

you dont marry or fall in love with a cliche, i beliwve there is a person out there for every one,regardless of past,creed colour or culture, and love sometimes bites when you least expect it

Answer 10

There is little to those particular sayings, but the obvious common sense ones still hold up. Love.

Answer 11

As long as you don't get bitter and see an ex partner in a new one. Love can not be taken for granted