2006-08-21 11:39:54 · 17 answers · asked by lodeemae 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When the sister that I took in and supported slept with my husband, a low level fink.
2006-08-21 11:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend revealed a big secret to my boyfriend that I trusted her with. It hurt really badly, but I didnt want to lose my best friend. So I tried my hardest to forget about it and move on so I could continue to have her friendship. What a big mistake that was. She ended up stabbing me in the back again! My best advice, stay away from backstabbers and don't take them back as a friend/lover, etc.!
2006-08-21 18:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by mommyLynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really want to say what happened but i dont normally trust a lot of people. actually normally i only tell one person EVERYTHING and it hurts when they back stab you becuase then you feel like you cant trust anyone. And then you dont have anyone to talk to again.
2006-08-21 18:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by ML226 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend in the world, who had gotten me through quite a lot of turmoil in my life, inveigled me into a relationship and then decided to turn tricks on the side while still seeing me and lying to me. Love, friendship, down the tubes with all of it. Don't mortgage your soul to a stranger, but then, we all begin as strangers- it's only later on that you discover which strangers are friends you haven't made yet, and which strangers are merely assholes waiting for their chance to strike.
2006-08-21 18:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by DR. LARRY MITCHELL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an affair & my best friend told on me within 48 hours. Didn't even let me tell him. Caused all kinds of problems. This is why I say "trust no one."
2006-08-21 18:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend that i had known since second grade last year started talking behind my back about me and stuff to my bf and he still wouldnt tell me what she said. he was trying to be nice cuz i didnt know what she said he just told me she was talking crap about me when i was out sick and a few other friends said the same thing. i felt bad. but now i dont really have to worry cuz we are starting to go our separate ways anyway. i felt bad cuz i would tell her everything and then she turned on me like that.
2006-08-21 18:46:38 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Carlino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the summer between 7th and 8th grade I became really close friends with a girl named Shelbie that went to my school. We got along really well and did everything together. In time her mother started telling people that I was her daughter and I called her mom. It was like my second family and I loved them so much. I never really found out what it was that I did but sometime during my 8th grade year of Junior High School Shelbie decided she was going to hate me. We had been arguing on and off about stupid things and I never really knew why. As time progressed we went our separate ways but Shelbie continued to talk to me almost secretly. As I had accidentally slipped out an "I'm going to f-ing kill you" during one of our more pointless fights that we were joking around in, her mother had told me she would press charges if I did anything to upset her daughter. So Shelbie would be a ***** to me and I could do nothing to defend myself, as her mother would press charges. This went on for almost the rest of the year until I finally get sick of it. I didn't care what happened to me anymore I had to stand up for myself. So I started talking to her and made her feel horrible for what she did to me, however in the end of it all I was empty handed. She started talking to my boyfriend that she had hooked my up with and ended up being the reason we broke up then hooked up with him over the summer. I was left with her mother out press charges against me, no boyfriend, most of the school thinking that I was a potential harm to them, and the fear of protecting myself again.
I'm about to go into my freshman year and to tell you the truth I don't care anymore. I started talking to her again and explained that I don't want anything to do with her, her mother, or Derrick (both Shelbie and I' ex-boyfriend). She upset her two new friends that she tried to replace me with and now has no one that will talk to her. Therefore she's being extremely nice to me so that she can have a friend going into the school year. However, I've moved on and I above all of that childish nonsense so I'm probably going to end up telling her off.
That's my story,
Amanda
2006-08-21 18:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by CommonSense 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it was a feeling of lightness as they slide off your back, you know what they are and you never have anything to do with them again.
2006-08-21 18:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when my sister gave my bf my diary. it said in great detail about how i was going to break up with him and when. he read alllllll of it. and he found out stuff about my friends that they had told me in confidence, my friends got pissed off and thought that i had told him even tho i never ever brought it up to him. it really sucked.
2006-08-21 18:47:56 · answer #9 · answered by noelani90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 15 my boyfriend was sleeping with a friend of mine. i then dumped him and went out with his best friend whom told me that he was doing that since we started to go out. i have since lost contact with his best friend. i still havent forgiven him yet and never will. he got married and everyone is waiting for him to cheat on her.
2006-08-21 18:47:47 · answer #10 · answered by been there done that 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋