My boyfriend use to be all about me. I love him and he lives with me doesn't pay rent . He doesnt work so I support him but I care about him... He hangs out with his friends so I call to see how things are and they say "whos this?" Its been 2yrs...shouldn't they know..his brothers do it too. We use to do it all the time like crazy,now once in awhile its crazy. I mean I see him lie to his mom and friends so I know He has to do it to me too..Right? I'm not sure what to think. Help Please.....
2006-08-21 11:37:46 · 16 answers · asked by Sissy Girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
U PEOPLE NEED TO STOP GIVING "DOG'S" a BAD NAME!!!!!
Dogs are great animals if loved and treated nice!
Your "boyfriend" needs to GET OUT and GET A LIFE and GET A JOB and stop counting on you to "support" him. WHy are you "supporting" his LAZYASS????????????????????????????
that's not what boyfriends are for! It's nice of you to "support" him though but it's time that you let him off his leash and let him explore the world on HIS OWN!
HE NEEDS TO GROW UP
and you need to TELL HIM TO LEAVE because you aren't going to play games and live with lies....your BETTER THAN THAT!!!!!!!!!
lose him!
"supporting is Supporting" NOT BEING TAKEN ADVANAGE OF!
There is a BIG difference!
2006-08-21 11:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Cherries 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is being a dog and the decision u have to make is if u want that kind of dog around you. He seems like an ungrateful dog to me.
You have to make that decision for yourself and decide how much you love your self and how long you will accept that sort of behaviour from someone that you are practically taking care of.
He is taking you for granted. Make a decision.
2006-08-21 18:48:00 · answer #2 · answered by precioustt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is being a dog. In order for you to correct the problem is to stop being so av to him. Tell him that he needs to step up to the plate and be a man or your. He is only going to do what u allow him to do. So if u contiue to take care of him while he plays the feild then he is going to contiue to do the things that he do. Ur letting him have his cake and eat it too.
2006-08-21 19:04:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up! Loser, user and ur bein played! No job, no RENT! Please kick is happy ever lovin A** to the curb u can do bad by ur damn self! U need a Partner not a child! u let him leach off ua nd and u LEt him treat u badly ur either stuck on stupid and dangling from dumb of u really don't mind being USED! If show was on other foot u think he'd let u stay rent free?
2006-08-21 18:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your on the right track. If he lies to everyone else then he is capable of lying to you too. Why would you let someone treat you like that. If his family is treating you like that and he doesn't say anything to them about it, then maybe its time to kick him to the curb. Let him see what its like without you then maybe he'll have a change in attitude.
2006-08-21 18:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by angel 22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy him a new collar and tie him out in the country somewhere, get a real lover and forget this one...before he infects you with something he picks up on the way home.
2006-08-21 18:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by theoldguy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a terrible person. After the 'height' of the relationship, he just basically decided to just not care anymore. I would dump him, because it kinda sounds like he is just taking advantage of your hospitality.
2006-08-21 18:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Free rent, free food, free sex, your boyfriend is a lot smarter than you. Throw him out because his friends and brothers are laughing at you.
2006-08-21 18:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by sneezewhiz 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Send that dog packing and find yourself someone worth of being with you!!!!! It's guys like him (note I did not say "men") that give good guys a bad rap.
2006-08-21 18:49:33 · answer #9 · answered by OrangeCharlie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't pay rent? Just that alone pisses me off.
If it barks like a dog honey......most likely it's a dog
2006-08-23 19:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋