Ok me and this guy used to be really great friends all of last year and I always liked him a little more than just friends. Now this year he just ignored me and acts like he doesn't know me. Also my friend asked him out for me last year and he never said anything back. What do you think I should do?
2006-08-21 11:36:13 · 18 answers · asked by Chocolate Lover♥ 7 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Move on! You need to look yourself in the mirror and remind yourself that you are a cool girl worthy of dating guys that are really into you. And yes, I mean guys. There is no reason to settle down and have a boyfriend, particularly as a teenager. DO NOT focus on lame boys that ignore you and don't like you. Look around for the guys that you may not have noticed at first, but who are really interesting (and into you). Don't waste your time even thinking about anyone else!
2006-08-21 11:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by gurugirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up and talk to him and if that doesn't work move on. I tried the asking someone out via someone else when I was a teen and it just didn't work. The best thing to do is talk to the person, don't pressure the situation and then if things seem right do the asking. Don't expect a lot at first. Teen years are usually very awkward for both boys and girls.
2006-08-21 18:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by John T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys were really great friends last year I think you should be up front with him. Tell him how you feel. He will either blow you off again, in which case you know he isn't a good friend in the first place, or he will tell you how he feels. Be honest and upfront! It takes alot of courage, but in the long run you would regret never telling him how you feel. Good Luck!
2006-08-21 18:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by momof2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont hurt yourself by trying to be with someone who really just doesnt want to be with you... guys know if they are interested and if your friend already asked him out for you then dont keep pressing the issue every man likes a chase ( no matter what they say) and he is just ignoring you now anyway suck it up and ignore him back if it is meant it will be otherwise spear yourself the heartbreak
2006-08-21 18:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by its_not_hating_its_da_truth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I would back off a little. Give him some space. He may be feeling a little suffocated. Then, after awhile, try talking to him again. If he continues to ignore you, move on. He wasn't the friend you thought he was. Good luck!!
2006-08-21 19:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by REDHED4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its obvious ghe knows how u feel about him and for some reason he is just playing the field right now! Dobnt try and corner huim into a corner cus that will totally freak him out. Say hi to him in the halls- smile at him when you see him and let it go. If he is interested HE WILL LET U KNOW!
2006-08-21 18:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think you should go up to him and ask him your self. Cause really boys don't like when another person come up to him and ask the question for the girl. So call him and say can we talk, then tell him how you feel.
2006-08-21 18:50:02 · answer #7 · answered by lillovely09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like my friend and i - even though that's all he's ever been to me... i just gave him some space for a little bit and then started saying hi to him when i see him. we've started talking again and things are going back to the way things used to be.
2006-08-21 18:46:58 · answer #8 · answered by soccergurl040709 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just walk up to him like nothing ever happened. he may just be weirded out by you liking him more than friends. maybe he doesn't like you that way or maybe he does and now he isn't sure how to act around you. guys are strange!!!
2006-08-21 19:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by 1smartmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that it's easier said than done, but if I were you, I would talk to him myself. Maybe sometime when it can just be the two of you.
2006-08-21 18:44:50 · answer #10 · answered by lutzzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋