your men going to strip clubs for a birthday etc. Do you let him go and worry or are you cool with it?
2006-08-21 11:23:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
If someone wants to do something you cannot stop them. However I would no agree with it any more than a man would agree to his woman doing the same. I feel that going to strip clubs is putting yourself in a position to end up doing the wrong thing. It's a way of entertaining your lust. If I were married and my husband wanted to watch someone strip I would be more than willing to entertain him.
2006-08-21 11:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I personally find it pathetic and tragic but have no problem if my bf wants to go and waste money. IF he wants to make it a habit...that is when I would have a problem with it. It is just very sad to see some men go ALL the time...like they really have a shot at a women that works there? Why would I be worried?? People fail to realize these women are PAID to stimulate men!! They wouldn't be doing it if cash was not involved!!! It's just kind of funny and pathetic all at once. But some women are just APPAULED by it...which is equally amusing.
2006-08-21 18:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My lady and I went to a strip club together for the first time ever. I did not enjoy myself. I guess why pay for it when I can get it at home.
2006-08-21 18:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'd think it was a bit stupid, but if it's a birthday then he'd probably be taken by a group of male friends.
I wouldn't worry about it too much, but I'd be curious and I'd want to know all about it when he got home.
2006-08-22 02:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would let him go and i would hope that he would have a good time. i have actually ask my hubby to go to a strip club but he refuses. i even told him that i would go with him and pay for a lap dance and again he refuses
2006-08-21 21:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by Smiley Freckles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm cool with it, but he's not into it.
It was one of the ways I tested him when we were first going out, but he didn't know that. He still doesn't. Ah, the bliss of ignorance. He passed the test.
2006-08-21 21:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by Shinigami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's to worry about, as long as he comes home.
2006-08-21 18:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by Pepper's Mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whenever i date someone they never even look at anything bad! not just b/c i don't allow it, b/c i'm worth enough that they just won't go to anything else. honey don't deal with that crap. you're far better then that! my man wouldn't be my man anymore if he went down that road!
2006-08-21 20:18:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For special occasions would be okay with me. As long as he remains faithful. Just as long as he knows that each day of the week isn't a special occasion. :)
2006-08-21 19:38:31 · answer #9 · answered by net_grl79 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he wants to pay for sex, or sexual titillation, I'd rather he pay me and get some new shoes out of it!
2006-08-21 21:17:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋