2006-08-21 11:07:06 · 20 answers · asked by maveric 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
depends why you were away
2006-08-26 11:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, read this cause it could save you. I've been there and I see you are probably about to make the same mistakes I did. I want you to keep some things in mind here. She is NOT the only girl out there. I say this because a girl I once thought I oved did the same thing to me. I begged her and pleaded with her to give me one more chance. She'd take me back and break up with me over and over. To this day she swears she still loves me yet she's married with child. I thought she was the only one that could make me happy in life until a month ago. Now I have met another girl even better than the first one and she treats me great. the point is that love is blind and that you should guard yourself against falling too hard too fast for any girl. Next time a girl breaks up with you TAKE IT FROM ME... the two most powerful phrases to respond with are: "I understand" and "enjoy your life, goodbye". After saying only these phrases, turn around and walk away. Do not look back, do not question her decision. She has made up her mind and if you want any chance at all of her deciding on her own to come back you will let her know that it is ok to leave you becaus you aren't going to freak out about it. A woman is like a wild bird. if you cage it and keep it caged it will try to escape every chance it gets. but if you leave the door open with something they desire inside they will come to you. Essentially they need to feel free and secure at the same time. so let her leave as she pleases and if she comes back to you and you've moved on to someone better, then too bad for her. and good for you. you win either way and this way you regain control of your romantic life. Don't waist time on some-one that has realized that you are not the one for them. I hope this advice helped. Good luck.
2016-03-17 00:46:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you get her to fall in love with you the first time? You didn't mention what happened that caused you to break up. Was it your fault or hers? And once you broke up, she was no longer your girlfriend, she was a friend that was a girl who you use to love.
Is she seeing someone else now??? Are you, even it is just to pass the time?
There is not enough information to really give you a solution to your problem.
Explain more and I will answer!
2006-08-28 14:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by babeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date. Do things together that you both like and give yourselves the chance to get to know each other and get comfortable again. A year away is a long time and things change, you are both probably a little different than a year ago.
2006-08-25 21:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have her meet you at the resturant that you had your first date at and have the table set up for dinner for two. Order for her and depending on where your realtionship was before either ask her to marry you or take her for a walk on the beach or buggy ride.
2006-08-21 11:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by madawna p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you get a girl to love you? what force her to love you? you are in cloud cook-coo land.
This girl will either love you or not. If in a year of parting she has made no attempt.
Boy I think you are out of luck, in no way can you force love!
"Daddy Dave"
2006-08-21 11:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by uncle Dave 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well that is up to her.you cant make a person to fall back in love with you.you will have to take it slow and ease and if she still cares she will.but if she don't she wont. the truth
2006-08-28 13:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by daydreamer315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember how it all started with you two? back track to remind, not by saying it to her, try to do technically same or similar things to stir it up like before using your imagination?
2006-08-21 12:05:19 · answer #8 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was really in love with you she would still be no matter how many years its been think this over
2006-08-21 11:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by cupcake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be your self, if she can accept that after being away for a while, then maybe its time to move on, because it sounds like she already has!
2006-08-29 07:15:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
will maybe you should just tell her you wont her back, and that you are still in love with her, or maybe you need to win her back, heaps of things you can do, to show her that you still love her, good luck and god bless
2006-08-26 17:20:08 · answer #11 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋