2006-08-21 11:04:16 · 15 answers · asked by lushy_lu 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
IF HE IS IN CONTROL OF WHEN YOU GUYS HAVE SEX HE KNOWS HE IS THE ONE IN CONTROL. IF YOU ARE SITTING AROUND WAITING TO HEAR FROM HIM HE KNOWS HE HAS THE UPPER HANDS. IF YOU NO LONGER DO THE THINGS YOU DID BEFORE YOU MET HIM, HE IS IN CONTROL. GET YOUR OWN LIFE GO OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS. HAVE YOUR OWN ACTIVITIES. LET HIM LOOK FOR YOU SOMETIMES STOP MAKING IT EASY FOR HIM TO KNOW YOU EVERY MOVE. DO YOU THINK HE IS GOING TO STAY AROUND BECAUSE YOU GIVE IN TO HIS EVERY NEED? NO HE IS NOT, IF YOU DON'T GAIN SOME CONTROL YOU WILL LOSE HIM. BECAUSE ONCE A MAN FEEL HE HAS REACHED HIS CONQUEST THEY MOVE ON THEY DON'T TREAT YOU AS WELL AS BEFORE. THEY MOVE ON EVENTUALLY, I KNOW THIS FOR A FACT. MAKE A COPY OF THIS ANSWER BECAUSE IF YOU DON'T START GIVING HIM SOMETHING TO BE A LITTLE CONCERN ABOUT YOU WILL EVENTUALLY LOSE HIM.
2006-08-29 05:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a dumb game, dump the child and find someone that is more grown up. It might depend on a person's definition of "conquered." Emotionally? Financially? Sexually? What is the man's goal with you really determines the way he wants to conquer you.
Men who are still in conquer mode are not ready for a relationship. I'm not sure that some men are really out to "conquer" you so much as simply get in bed with you.
2006-08-29 06:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by winton_holt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking frankly, this is a huge problem in China. I guess the girls are taught that men are king and they are low in the pecking order. I teach all my female students that they are actually more important than the males; they have the babies. I despise to see men entering doors in front of women, because I place females on a high pedestal. Love is equal; so equality in a relationship should be the same. When having dinner with a female, she chooses the place to dine and the food to eat; this is called respect and common decency. I also assist her with her chair and assure she is pleased where she is sitting.
For a relationship to last, there must be a common feeling of equality. After all, this is about love.
2006-08-27 15:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by Calvin of China, PhD 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you want to be with this man? If you are damn sure then basically you are going to have to watch his mood for the rest of his life and become distant when he begins to lose interest until he becomes interested again in which case you show interest for a bit and then become disinterested. After the wedding you can ease up a bit but not really cause if you ease up too much he will leave you for someone who makes the effort to gauge his mood and play the game with him,
When they say that relationships are alot of work - this is what they mean.
2006-08-21 16:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by skepticseeksmystic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't keep a man from feeling anything. You can only be responsible for your own sense of self ... but if you are unconquerable, he cannot feel he has conquered you. Sounds more like a tug-of-war than a relationship to me.
2006-08-28 01:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by Myrna B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To keep a man, you should spice things up as much as possible and remember that absense makes the heart grow fonder. It's unattractive for someone to be too available/desperate. Without denying your true feelings, PACE YOURSELF. I get freaked out when people are too quick to fall in love and spend all their time with me. If you center your life around someone, they don't appreciate you and might begin to feel that they've 'conquered you.'
2006-08-25 17:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by Kt 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Act like an adult. He is not your daddy. You are supposed to be equals.
A relationship is supposed to be two people sharing. If you do not have that, then you do not have the basis for a long term relationship.
2006-08-28 04:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by raymanx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by keeping your individuality and not letting him 'conquer' you. the notion that you can be conquered makes me feel that you're kind of submissive and/or dependent. these are issues you may need to work on for yourself
2006-08-27 03:51:35 · answer #8 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know exactly what you are referring to. But nobody deserves the right to feel that they conquered anyone.
2006-08-21 11:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lay down and be his doormat. It take compromise on both parts in order to stay in a relationship.
2006-08-21 11:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by MJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋