Is it just the excitement? I have kids too I dunno what to do!!!!
2006-08-21 10:56:49 · 7 answers · asked by mrndtn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stop. Then work on fixing your marriage so you don't the destroy your family and make your children pay for it.
2006-08-21 11:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Read this. It may help you.
MARRIAGE, entered into, should be maintained with honor as an arrangement set up by God himself. Marriage should also be approached in honor. Marriage is a serious, responsible thing that has presented many problems outside of the Paradise of Eden where it was begun; and an honorable approach to it ought to have a beneficial effect. It ought to help the marriage to be successful. Really, by marriage the man and the wife ought to strive to honor God, the loving heavenly Father who provided for this union which would have been completely blissful had it been continued in Paradise.
While today many seek to find excuses for adultery, in doing so they are deceiving themselves. The Biblical rule, “whatever a man is sowing, this he will also reap,” cannot be sidestepped. (Gal. 6:7) Consider the possible results: Guilty conscience, venereal disease and unwanted pregnancy. In the latter case, who is to be responsible for the care of the mother and the rearing of the illegitimate child? Will one go farther and commit murder by having an abortion? And what about the heartbreak of the innocent mate when that one learns about the adultery? Consider, too, the jealousy that might well result not only in divorce but also in murder.—Prov. 6:27-35.
To guard against adultery one must begin with the mind and heart, even as Jesus showed: “From inside, out of the heart of men, injurious reasonings issue forth: fornications, thieveries, murders, adulteries.” That is why God’s Word warns: “More than all else that is to be guarded, safeguard your heart, for out of it are the sources of life.” Do this by refusing to dwell on immoral thoughts. An aid to guarding the heart and keeping it free from injurious reasonings is being careful of the impressions one takes in through the senses. It is therefore wise not to view any motion pictures or television programs that feature immorality. Also avoid reading books and magazines or looking at pictures that are sexually provocative or pornographic. Jesus said that a married man could be guilty of what might be called mental adultery by his keeping on looking at a woman with lustful eyes. Such a one might be said to be committing adultery in his thoughts.—Mark 7:21, 22; Prov. 4:23; Matt. 5:28.
2006-08-21 18:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by dreamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does this affair concerns a husband and wife or just boyfriend and girlfriend? if its h/w better hope the other half doesnt catch you . you are better off breaking off this affair before you ruin your family. if its b/g well , no harm no foul you are not married . you can go do what you want.again dont get caughtcoz their are some crazy people out in this world be carefull!!!!
2006-08-21 18:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by richardstz19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you get goose bumps again, the touch is passionate. You think of your lover and what your going to do next..Right, well its sad but don't forget your family.. Your lover is giving you something your marriage is missing..Find it trust me..I'm getting divorced and I have 4 kid. He cheated on me and it hurt, but I did it to him and our family fell a part.. I'm still with Sancho and its not that great anymore..Its been 2yrs.. So be careful
2006-08-21 19:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by Sissy Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP!!!!!!!!!! Unless you are going to break up your family you need to keep this person out of your life.
2006-08-21 18:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep riding, wear protection and don't let the hubby find out
2006-08-21 18:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably just cut it off.
2006-08-21 18:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋