I love my family but they're driving me crazy and making me depressed. I want to move out but I don't have a job or any money saved. Is a place I can go to till I get on my feet.
2006-08-21 10:50:42 · 49 answers · asked by Marie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well you will have to be more specific as to why you want out. Driving you crazy could be simply and attitude on your part. See a counsellor at school...run it by them and see what they have to advise.
2006-08-28 16:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a job and start saving your $. It'll give you the time away from your parents and a greater sense of independence. Then it won't seem like so long till you do move out. Set a goal as to how much you think it will take, go view different apartments and rentals, and make a plan. It makes it so much easier to get out of the house every once in a while. You may even decide to stay. Good luck.
2006-08-28 17:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by Cassiopeia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you feel so desperate to leave home that you are willing to do so even without the means. If I read between the lines, it sounds like you NEED to leave more than you want to. I hope I am wrong, but in any case, very often there are homeless shelters, but mind you they are not fancy, not flexible and not the ideal places to live. There are also programs that may assist you with rent such as a Housing Choice Voucher Program and/or Public Housing...again it is a government subsidized program and it may not be ideal, but it may be of some help. If you can hang in there with your family, try to do just that until you can get a job, find a roommate or a place you can afford. If you are in some kind of trouble, there are Domestic Violence Services and/or Children/Youth Agencies that may help also. I hope your problem is not as bad as I may think. I hope you are just frustrated and wanting to get away without a means and not in a terrible situation that you MUST get away from. In any case, use your phone book to find any of the above you may be interested in in your area and I wish you all the best.
2006-08-28 13:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by eternallegs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have friends or other family members willing to take you in you are probably stuck at home till you can get a job and save up some money. Don't waste any time and go get a job today. Even if it is at McDonalds, it is at least a start and you can keep looking for other jobs while your working there.
2006-08-21 10:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know of many places..... but you may check with your local community, like social services. They have different organizations to help people. You getting out and getting a job, also may help you spend less time at home. You need to do something if it is causing you so much depression. Perhaps you can talk to them and explain how you are feeling, maybe they can help you, find a place. But if you are real depressed, I would suggest that talk to your local social service department. A counselor, someone that could help point you in a direction. Wish I could help, unless you go out and/or call for that information. There are a few places, but organizations like social servce, could give you resources. Good Luck, and I wish for you the best.
2006-08-28 22:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by dreamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the best thing that you can do is get a JOB if you don't want to be in the same house with them all the time and then save that money and get you're own place
2006-08-28 18:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jeremy & Ashley L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are, what preparation you have to get a job to support yourself, or why they are driving you crazy. It's hard to provide good advice without knowing more. Are they driving you crazy because they're trying to keep you safe until you are mature enough and educated enough to be on your own?
If so, you may not be ready to move out on your own. Are they abusive, drunks, addicts, psycho, etc? If so, you need protection!
Call Children's Protective Services in your area, or, at least, talk to a trusted adult. If nothing else, leave your Question and Answers open on your screen, and give them a chance to read it!
2006-08-28 17:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by 2307Connie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are homeless shealters everywhere that will give you job training and a bed to sleep in
why not just suck it up and get a job save 75% of your check for moving in a a few months you'll be out on your own rent a room in someones house or a small apt make sure you can make the rent and bills and not have to go back home,
go away to college if you do well enough they pay for it
2006-08-27 04:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by robs_princess2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do any of your friends have their own place? If not then why dont you get a job, save a lil money then get a place with a friend or check the ads in the paper to see if anyone needs a roomate!
2006-08-29 09:42:14 · answer #9 · answered by Ashley D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try and get a job and save a little money then think about moving out. Cuz think about it you will be working so you wont be around your family so much so then maybe in the end you wont want to move out and you will have money. Its a win, win situation
2006-08-27 16:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they probably wonder the same thing.
the last i knew there was not anywhere to move to until you get on your feet and get a job and get some money saved.
instead of saying they are driving you crazy, if they were that bad, id say they cant be that bad. if they were that bad, then you would already have some sort of job and saving your money to be able to get out. its a roof over your head and a meal on the table. what are you doing for them?
2006-08-25 11:23:17 · answer #11 · answered by lodeemae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋