I am becoming obsessed with my bf which is not bad and he doesn't see it as obsessed, he thinks it's sweet. But every second of my life I am thinking abut him, which is awesome but it's taking over. I am 16 and please don't tell me about the age cause I know for sure it's love. Since I think about him so much, when he doesn't do as many sweet stuff as 10 months ago when our relationship started, it makes me like "Does he still love me that much?". He still is sweet and I even bad-mouthed to him about this girl who was a "friend" in my guitar class this year. He only sits with me this year in guitar class but little small gestures make me wonder if he still loves me like he says he does. I broke up like almost everyday with him last year but I am really sorry and he knows that and says he still loves me and says I take for granted how he doesn't have any girl friends and that he only loves me. His mom called me to tell me he has to study this year so he can't stay every day afterschool
2006-08-21 10:36:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sound like a teenage love affair to me. It's time to face facts. You can't be with him all the time, and you have your own school work to do. It is natural for a relationship to calm down after a while. That doesn't mean he doesn't love you. I suggest you spend more time on your studies than you do on him.
2006-08-21 10:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get to be 17 you will laugh at this question, and when you get to be 18 you will even wonder why you asked it. Ok, you are a mature 16, I doubt it. At 16 I thought I knew so much more than my parents, but as I got older, it seemed as if they were catching up. No one can give you any good advice right now, that is that you will take and use, so just live in heart-ache and when it is all over and you are madly in love with someone else, you will remember this answer. Believe me, it will happen.
2006-08-21 10:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by loufedalis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you what you do... make a copy of this question, hide it in the back of your sock drawer or some where you never look, and in a few years when you read it again you will think that is was a really childish time of your life and that you have moved on... GUARANTEE!!!
2006-08-21 10:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by kssunflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋