If a Man leaves his wife for another woman is that wrong?

Question

What if he leaves his wife, because he is gay, and finds another man? Is that any different?

Answer 1

Cheating is cheating is cheating. If he is married and not keeping his vows, then he's a rotten cheating jerk. It doesn't matter if he is banging a woman or a man. He's still a rotten cheating jerk.

He should have the decency to end the marriage respectfully and honestly. She should not have to feel betrayed, humiliated, used, and rejected. Would you like to feel that way?

Answer 2

ok dude that is hard:(,when woman find her man wanna leave her for another person nomatter the person is that makes her fel so down and feel likes she never pleased ya and made u feel love and joy,so try to think harder before doing that kind of move to ur wife and if there is children in between ya that make u think wisely and more about how tat will effect ur kids and family but if u r really can't llive with ur wife u tell but never cheat on her just cos of ur kids u should be honestly with her and try to work things out if she want hope that helps:)

Answer 3

My husband left me for another man and it was the best thing that every happend to me! He was an abuser and he me convinced that all of our marital problems were my fault and that I was unattractive and lazy and basically a bad person. I would think that would be easier than if he would have left me for another woman. Another woman, I could have tried to fight, but I was sure as Hell not going to grow a penis! It took several years, but I got past the abuse and am married to a wonderful man (football coach, weight lifter, runner, I wasn't going to make THAT mistake again) and life is pretty great!

Answer 4

I think they are both wrong. Leaving your wife for another man because you are gay is a little less harsh, because it isnt you wife you are slighting, its women in general.

Answer 5

I guess it depends on how they part ways. If he just runs off with another woman, that is wrong. If they split because the man no longer loves his wife, that could go either way. She may understand and she may not. This is gray territory.

Answer 6

There's too many variables, but typically if he made a commitment than he has to follow through with it. And if there are kids involved than there's no question that he has to stay.

Why did he marry her in the first place if he was gay? Just to make sure that he is?

Answer 7

morally and religiously it is wrong either way, and no matter what it is going to hurt very very badly! on one hand if you leave for a woman she will think "why wasnt i good enough" and if its for a man she will think "i turned him gay"... when in reality her only thought should be "THANK GOD THAT THE SCUM BAG IS OUT OF MY LIFE BECAUSE I DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER THAN HIM!" cheaters are scum and deserve to get the crap beat out of them!

Answer 8

Yes, its wrong no matter how it happens.
If he were gay he should have sat his wife down and explained it to her and divorced her then went and found him another.
If i were married i would rather he tell me i want someone else and then divorce me rather than cheat on me with someone or leave me because hes already seeing someone else.

Answer 9

Neither is wrong. You gotta do what you gotta do. If a husband leaves his wife, the blame is still 50-50 - she chose to marry him, after all.

Answer 10

It isn't wrong to end a relationship that is bad. Chances are very much against you if you start a relationship before you end your current one. The gender of your potential new partner(s) has nothing to do with it.