OK so i am 13 school started one week ago, i have a boyfriend, and he never talks to me, i have no idea. But there is the new boy in my class that i have a HUGE crush on, I am SOOOOOO confused!!!
And i have no idea what is wrong with my boyfriend, he never talks to me and has never asked me out.... What should I do???
2006-08-21 10:24:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
And you call him you boyfriend wtf ok i am 13 and i just got back from this ymca camp and i have this huge crush on this guy and i told him and he was like o weel your nice but i dont like you like that BUT all the counsaler are realy close to me and i havent been there in a week or 2 you know so there are all like hey gabby the tottaly likes you he was just saying this because you are new good thing he is going to your school
so about that boy in your class get tot know him make sure he is not a jurk and then be brave a nd pop the question to him if you need to talk abi\out this e mail me nollielover575@yahoo.com
i know how you feel
2006-08-21 11:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by nollielover575 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before I can answer your question, I need additional information. Does this boy know that he is your boyfriend? If so, then the definition of bf has changed quite a bit since I was 13.
Boyfriends should, at the very least, speak to you. He should make you smile, laugh and you should enjoy being around him. If he doesn't do any of these then you need a new boyfriend.
Go ahead, see if this "crush" you mentioned might be interested in you too. In the meantime find out who you 'really are'. Knowing yourself is the best way to survive relationships of all kind.
Good luck.
2006-08-21 17:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by wibbsite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Talk to your boyfriend--make him talk to you. Be mature and don't accuse, use "I" messages, and listen to him as well. Explain that this relationship is frustrating you.
2) Let the crush be for right now. Become friends with him--don't break up because of him. This will haunt you later and cause stress in a few years.
3) Don't act on first emotions. Usually the boys who are most popular are the ones with the worst personalities. You deserve better than that.
2006-08-21 17:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he's your boyfriend? (Valid question from the sound of things....)
What do you want to do? I bet you've got a gut instinct. :-)
Okay. This happened with me in seventh grade, only I was the shy one who didn't know what to do. Really, at your age there's not much you guys ought to be doing anyway BUT talking, so if your boyfriend isn't talking to you, then maybe you could start talking to him...and then if that kind of feels like *blah* nothing, then go ahead and break up with him soon. Especially since you're eyeing someone else. It's the kind thing to do. Don't know if you'll be with the one you're crushing on, but you'll at least not be with a cement block that won't talk.
2006-08-21 17:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, Don't worry about boys right now worry about school u have ur whole life ahead of you. Its ok to have friends abut your only 13 truse I know what im talkin about. I had my frise boyfriend at 12 and I should of never had one still today I regret that
2006-08-21 17:32:14 · answer #5 · answered by nacelov21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, to be young again. I suggest you follow your heart. it does not sound like much of a boyfriend if he does not talk to you? Do you talk to your girl friends? I suggest you focus on your friends, family and school work and leave the boys for later. I promise there are other fish in the sea.
2006-08-21 17:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by angie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has never asked you out and doesn't even talk to you, then that guy is not worthy of being called your boyfriend. Dump him. And see your chances with the new guy. Hopefully, he'll treat you better than your current bf.
2006-08-21 17:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mujareh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask your boyfriend wats going on with you and him if it ends it ends ask around about this crush of yours see if he has a girl where he is from nd if he is interested or thinks you are cute it not much but its a start
2006-08-21 18:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by babygurlz94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is just me but at 13 there are so many other things to be worried about than boys but i would dump the guy your with now and check out the other new guy usually when you act like your not interested they (boys/men) react to that and absolutely have to have you
2006-08-21 17:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by Mary V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait another week to see if he doesn't change and then dump him. And go for the new boy. Your BF now might just be shy. Why don't you try to start some conversation?
2006-08-21 17:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋