this girl really hates me and i hate her because she is soooo wrong for him! how do i make him believe me before he gets hurt?
2006-08-21 10:07:19 · 15 answers · asked by georgiagirl164 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't harp on it, if you do, and if he really likes this girl, you may end up losing a friend.
She may be jealous of your friendship with him and you trying to break them up will, understandably, make her hate you and want your friend not to hang with you.
Try to find reasons to like (or, at least, tolerate) this girl. If she is as wrong for him as you say, he'll figure it out for himself soon enough. In the meantime, try to stay in contact with him, even if you don't see him much for awhile. DO NOT pull the "she goes or I go" BS. Even if he choses you, he will resent you for it.
If you support him now, he is more likely to be at ease with you after. If/when they break up, don't rub it in that you were right, just say "I'm sorry it didn't work out. I want to see you happy"
2006-08-21 10:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You unfortunately have to let you friend experience this tragedy for himself. If anything just be his support system for when this does fall through. Don't let it be an i told you so support though. I'm sure in the long run when time has passed and he's over her it's something you guys will be able to joke around about, but for now just let him make his own mistakes!
2006-08-21 10:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mia A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 12:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by alia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are a good friend, but you need to let him figure it out on his own. If he gets hurt at least you will be there to help him through it.
2006-08-21 10:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by JERSEY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and let him find out for himself. Nothing you say will change his mind since you have mentioned that the girl he is dating hates you. She could, in effect, mess up his mind and get him to hate you instead!
2006-08-21 10:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people have to learn from their own mistakes. Just because you don't like her, doesn't mean that she doesn't make him happy and is wrong for him. You don't have to like her, but tolerate her. If she badmouths you too much, he will say something if he is really your friend.
2006-08-21 10:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by jtj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is, it's not for you to say who is and who is not right for anyone. The best thing you can do is just be there for your friend. If he wants you to like her, then like her. If they break up, be there for him. Sometimes you just have to let people figure things out for themselves.
2006-08-21 10:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is she totally wrong?? If you are a good friend then you will convince him of their incompatibility.
2006-08-21 10:18:06 · answer #8 · answered by tabz_nate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just walk away and let him get hurt, its the only way his going to know what she is and how you were trying to help.
2006-08-21 21:28:12 · answer #9 · answered by cupcake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't.Let him find out for himself.If you like him , support and let him make his own mistakes.
2006-08-21 10:22:54 · answer #10 · answered by Eloisa2525 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋