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Love is such an expansion of inner soul that it's tough not to love. Love makes us so light and electric & it's based on trusting someone, somebody who you feels to be yours at a point of time. And you accept that fact, behave naturally and openly to your emotions. The one could be anybody - u have met or not met. It's a question of your desire, yours emotional surrender to that being. You may not observe a lot of things in him/her but you are ready to accept him/her totally giving your absolute self.
I know that for too many people physical expression is mandatory to love but I feel that one can be damn reciprocative to a prostitute even in the first meeting and feels so relaxed and pleased but to me covering a physical journey between two sexual bodies is just a distance of few minutes - i.e. one can be in physical proximity and develop a physical relationship to anyone (Would that mean that one can fall in love to anybody one choose to be or gets physical with?)
The sexual chemistry and biological pull which clings everyone to a particular boyfriend/girlfriend for fun may not necessarily needs to be love. To me, even an electronic affair is - or can be much successful. Have you not seen marriages by emails - yes it happened here in India - even between two neighboring countries.
I feel that the emotion which one carries is more important than the physical bond. A physical bond can be without emotion and so it doesn't matter that whether you'v met or not - the most important thing is that you want to go & you grow your relationship on trust with patience, understanding, cooperation to make it really true and going even though it takes time.
have a happy lovely life.
take care!
2006-08-21 10:35:02
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answered by nothing 1
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I knew because of a dream I had while I was dating someone else. I dreamt that I walked into an unfamiliar apartment (unfamiliar at that time) and saw this man watching football on a big screen tv< I could only see the back of his head. When I woke up, I felt immense love for this stranger, which was very conflicting for me since I was dating/loving someone else. So I ignored it and years went by, me and my then boyfriend broke up. I started dating this new guy and about 1.5 months in, I walked into his apt to see that he had re arranged his living room and now he was facing the tv (big screen) and all i could see was the back of his head, I felt all the love I had for him and realized I had dreamt this before, sort ofa dejavue. My grandparents are indian (cherokee) and they told me that dejavue is destiny telling you that you are on the right path. So I knew instantly that i was where I should be. I often get dejavue, and I love it because I realize I am where god wants me to be. Good question. Its been 3 years since I walked into his apt, and we are happily married now.
2006-08-21 10:10:17
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answered by Angel Eve 6
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Yes I have I met my g/f on yahoo playing black jack and we both knew from the start we loved each other...it has been 2 yrs only have met twice....she lives 1500 miles away and she is planning on moving up to where I am at next year.....we are soulmates
2006-08-21 10:27:50
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answered by jeff402006 3
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oh that's good for you. I'm yet to fall in love but when I do, i'll know exactly how it's supposed to feel. Your'e right it's definitely something that you feel. I wish u 2 the world of success and I hope u have a long happy properous future together. You both deserve it.
2006-08-21 10:38:13
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answered by Anonymous
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Isn't love grand? I love to be in love more than anything else, as well as loving for love's sake. I have fallen in love several times in my life and suspect I will several more times! Opening yourself to risks is part of the adventure in life and it is a shame if people don't allow themselves to receive love. How could people be expected to be able to love without feeling worthy enough to receive love? Growth, through loving, is the ultimate outcome(no matter the FINAL outcome) with this huge part of life, otherwise what is it all for? You go girl! Have a great day and I'm happy for you.
2006-08-21 10:10:31
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answered by sweetpea 4
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My boyfriend told me he loved me before we met in person or on the phone. We had only emailed at that point. We have been together (in person) for five years now.
2006-08-21 10:08:15
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answered by Ann 4
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WOW, THAT IS EXCITING,
I do hope you got to know him well,'
why do you not marry if you are sure he is the one,
moving in is an experiment,, and usually shifts the seriousness, and value on marriege to not so signifigant,
At any rate, i wish you happiness, contentment, and very little misery,,
good luck
2006-08-21 10:09:51
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answered by Maureen K 4
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I have fallen in love before but unfortunatly I believe its gone bad for me every time. I dont know I am happy to hear that you are so happy and are so much in love...good for you...you are truly blessed
2006-08-21 10:06:53
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answered by tinker143 5
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Let me guess... you met him online?
If you had not had many interactions with people then yes, it's possible. When I said interaction I meant actual physical interactions where it involves talking with people in person, spending time together, hanging out, etc.
2006-08-21 10:09:15
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answered by Bobbie 3
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countless cases people mistake actual attraction for romance or the buzz of being with somebody new for romance or they're in basic terms in love with the assumption of being in love - they celebrate with the chase, the video games that are performed, etc. None of it somewhat is love, no longer true love. I doubt if your buddy has somewhat felt true love yet. My opinion, you are the wiser and greater mature individual.
2016-10-02 09:13:27
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answered by ? 4
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