i just moved to atlanta and i live near three single lesbian women. it isn't the fact that their lesbians that bother me cause im one but they are starting to stalk me. everytime i go outside their either looking out the window or coming out side to talk to me. one time they even started to argue about who i would go out first. I need help on what to do should i move or what.
2006-08-21 09:53:15 · 10 answers · asked by jayjay 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
jayjay,,,, come on now ... girl live it up, this will not happen often.. Become friends with them and see who you like better and have fun... Other wise get one of your other friends to come over and act like your girlfriend... See if that helps... What state are you in????
2006-08-21 10:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they just want to be friends with a fellow lesbian...I'm not saying that do but, maybe that's the way they think. If they are only trying to buddy up, then make nice with the neighbors. But if you don't want to be friends with them, be a good distant neighbor. Ignore the looks and arguments with fake smiles, leave small gifts, and don't return phone calls.
If they really are romantically interested in you, that's where the plot thickens dangerously. You could find yourself in the middle of a big catfight if you choose one of them for a girlfriend. Either way, be polite, be distant, be neighborly. If one of them becomes aggressive tell them that you are "taken"; nothing more needs to be said.
Above all; it is the romantic issue vs. the friend issue; ask them about either one. They are human beings too. If you are interested in neither option, then you do have a lot of explaining to do to them; and a potential move if this gets ugly.
2006-08-21 17:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Fancy Pants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell them how you stand on it. If you are not attracted to any of them, say so. I'm sure they would understand and be glad that you were honest with them. Try a friendship between the 4 of you, since you are new to the area you could always use a guide to the city.
*If they are really starting to creep you out, speak up and if they don't listen bring in an outside party (police or a freind).
2006-08-21 17:09:39 · answer #3 · answered by Steph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're lesbians and you're a cute real boy, I think they are just teasing you, seeing if they can make your shy smile turn upwards. Go with the fun, and tease back a little, gently. When they ask who you'd go out with first, point to two of them!
2006-08-21 23:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you tell them how you feel? Perhaps you are imagining some of this. That's the only way they will know.
If three guys were doing the same thing (assuming you are straight) would you feel the same way? If not, I would suggest you investigate what is at the root of your fears.
Good luck!
2006-08-21 17:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go over and blow the whole situation wide open. Just walk over. Mention what you've seen, and ask them what's going on. It'll completely throw off their game and help you get to the bottom of what's going on.
2006-08-21 17:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO you shouldnt move, you have every right to live there as much as they do....what you can do, is tell them how u feel, tell them you want to only be friends. then maybe they will back off a little bit... or tell them it makes you feel uncomfortable with how they go about things....
2006-08-22 03:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by T@J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest to ignore it. If you're not interested in any of them, try dating someone else. They would see that you're not available and give up.
2006-08-21 17:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are gay people in Atlanta
2006-08-21 17:10:55 · answer #9 · answered by ricco_0101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u homophobic? why should you move? dont get too flattered, just ignore them or tell them you're not like what they think, thats it!
2006-08-22 02:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by classy naima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋