I don't know what I did, I'm 19 don't really drink or go to parties, I don't know what I did. do you have any idea what is going on here, it's been this way for the past few years, kind of gradual decline
2006-08-21 09:45:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to sit her down and ask her. It's bothering you and you deserve and answer. Cook dinner for her or rent some movies. Spend some quality time with her and gradually bring it up.
Good luck.
2006-08-21 09:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked your mom if you did something to offend her? Is there a secret that you have been hiding that she may have found out about that would have upset her? It is hard to say exactly what is going on with your mom from our stand point. All I can do is suggest that the two of your sit down and have a heart to heart. You never know, she may be thinking the same thing. Kids and parents grow apart, somewhat, as they get older but it is just like any relationship, you still have to work at it. Talk before the two of you grow too far apart.
2006-08-21 16:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by Gary 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been through this before and if you are still living at home, your mother is probably going through something inside. Perhaps watching you grow up and about to leave the nest, or maybe she can't wait for you to leave the home. You should really have a little sit down with her, because communication is golden.
2006-08-21 16:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by Golden Scepter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-Nine times outa ten ur mothers problem is internal, it has nothing to do with u, maybe shes going through something of her own and doesnt know how 2 discuss it with u, or maybe she did something at ur age that she is afraid u are doing now. Any who, sit down with her and talk it out, parents arent always perfect, sometimes they dont have the words or the tools to solve everything!! Good Luck!!
2006-08-21 16:55:24 · answer #4 · answered by Nay Nay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my own mother was the same way when i lived with her. She could just be having a hard time coping with the fact that"her baby is all grown up."
Why don't you try to sit your mom down and have a nice little one on one talk? It could be that she might feel lost cause you may not be depending on her anymore.
2006-08-21 16:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by trisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm thats strange...ask her. Maybe she is afraid of you growing up and leaving her so is trying to distance herself slowly so that she isn't heartbroken when you leave. Were you close before this? It can be a tough adjustment to having kids that are also adults of their own now. Maybe she just doesn't know what she is supposed to do now. Definitely talk to her about it and good luck!
2006-08-21 16:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is ask her (that is if you are close enough to her to do that). Sometimes parents distance themselves from their children as they get older because they dont feel needed like they did before.
2006-08-21 20:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she is preoccupied by somethng else, u know, my mom did the same thing but i tried to talk to her and she openend up nd told me what was wrong all worked out good, u have to know y she is acting like this, it maybe not you, just talk to her.
2006-08-21 16:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by naneya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mom and find out what the deal is.
2006-08-21 16:55:11 · answer #9 · answered by Jewells 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are an unsuccessful bore that sits online pushing your boring life on everyone else.
2006-08-21 16:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by brophy123 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋