Why am I thinking about by husbands past so much. Why does the thought of him having sex with ex's bother me? He is more experienced than me.. I keep thinking what if they were better than me. I want to be the best. He tells me I am but I think that it is emotional I am better but action wise I am not. That's what I think anyway. I try to have sex with him more but he tells me no.. Because he will get tired. Did he have sex with them more. Can men get tired of sex. Even though I am doing things to make it fun? Can anyone help me understand?
2006-08-21 09:44:29 · 5 answers · asked by reeree7400 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
what a tough question. I think you need to see a psychologist because your insecure in a big way. You think your husbands to good for you and all the other women he has been with are better than you. There probably is a reason why you feel the way you do. Either you have been really hurt or he has hurt you in the past or someone has taken your trust away. You need to find the underlying problem and get help with it. Your husband probably is tired sometimes and that's normal and its good you are still making it fun. I'm not sure if you are reminding him of his past to much cause you didn't mention that, but that could be a factor in the way he responds to sex. You also should talk to him because obviously you don't feel as important as you should to be his wife.
2006-08-21 09:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by shannon t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i completely understand, although i haven't been through what u are now, but understand his ex can bother u. but think about it, if he divorced them and is now with u, then he obviously doesn't care about how good/bad they were. sex isnt everything to some guys, and u are doing just fine.. especially if he sometimes says no, and if its cause he said he'll get tired then that must mean ur doing a good job. so dont worry about it.. sex isnt everything, it will all be fine :)
2006-08-21 09:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by undertakerk789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply because we are human beings and we have a very curious nature. We always wanna know how a thing works, what is going on at this particular moment, and so on. Sometimes I think, thinking too much becomes our downfall.
2006-08-21 09:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cold kisses..someone elses is kissing him...that is it...hot kisses...he still with you...tire or not he will do it with you...and or he will at least try...your thoughts are only nothing but imagination when people touch each other you get clamydia...a virus...star getting sick...not teating welll will give you this though,.a demon and a bampire sucking your blood...must...make sure you dont take it on you huds...attention...does he get attent....is he your real huds..or someone else,.what is your problem...you are not eating well...whisper me if you need more help ..i am a profess...experi
2006-08-21 09:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by lins 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we think be cuse we have too its our way of life!
2006-08-21 10:01:01 · answer #5 · answered by Catie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋