I have a stalker and I kind of like it. I am also a stalker and I kind of like it. Why? Is it okay?

Question

I know who the guy is that follows me around and I don't mind so much. It kind of excites me to think he is outside of my window at night. I think about how if he tried to attack me I would stab him and enjoy every moment of it (the attack and all).

I also find my self investigating people a little too much I call them just to hear their voice....
finding out where they live ect..... Is this normal? Why? What to do? Why?

Answer 1

lol, no no no, this is perfectly normal...the want to study others is just curiosity found in one's mind...the want for a stalker is just the human need for attention...its okay as long as you arent creating any psychological damage to yourself...
...hey take it from me (though i am the untrustable type lol) be a stalker and let them stalk you, the world is full of unworthy people and by finding out information you can be ready for whatever they throw at you...

Answer 2

No, I don't think that is normal at all. It's down right scary. If the guy decides to attack you, and he is more powerful, which guys usually are, he could rape you and kill you. Do you still find that exciting? If you do, I suggest you get help immediately. What if you don't get a chance to stab him or able to fight back at all. None of this scares you? You stalking people is scary too. No, it is not normal either. Who knows why people have these weird desires. I was watching TV the other day, and they were talking about people that wanted to be amputees. One woman, as a child, would mark the places on her legs where she wanted them to be cut off and would pretend they were. When she got older, she went to the extreme of putting dry ice on them and freezing them so the doctor would have to take them off. But she could not stand the pain any longer and it wasn't long enough for them to remove it. So now it looks nasty. One guy did freeze his off, then later regreted it when he got help and started medication. But at the time, that was all he obsessed about and wanted. And there is different kinds of people out there that has things like this and what your going through. I really do think you need to see a psychiatrist very soon. Maybe they can shed some light on what it is your going through. Good luck.