THE TRUTH IS HE HITS ME WHEN HE GETS MAD!!!!! THEN AFTER THAT HE WILL TILL ME SORRY . I LOVE HIM. 5 YEARS IS A LONG TIME WHAT DO I DO?????????????
2006-08-21 09:12:02 · 26 answers · asked by hotwheel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no matter how much he tells u he loves u in the end if he hits u its not true
he hits u to make himslf feel stronger u know
u need to get out
dont let him hurt u
stay with a freind with some family
but get out
go to the police DO WUTEVER U CAN AND GET OUT
2006-08-21 09:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by scruffy3850 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave. 5 years is a long time for you have to put up with that. You have described the cycle of abuse. Something starts the anger (which is never you, don't let him fool you), he hits you or screams at you, or whatever he does, then he apologizes and says it will never happen again, then he is sweet, attentive, and gentle for a few days, until he blows up again. THIS WILL NEVER STOP. I'm sorry you love him, it'll hurt less now to walk away and heal a broken heart than it will to stay there and heal whatever physical hurt he imposes on you. This isn't you're fault and you need to get out.
2006-08-21 09:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask...you know the answer already. Get out now. Five years isn't that long. I know someone who didn't get out of an abusive relationship and was stabbed 37 times and left in the street. When the paramedics came, she was pronounced dead twice. She was lucky enough to survive, but now she is COVERED with scars and can't even enjoy doing things like going to the beach or wearing the latest summer fashions. She has even MORE emotional scars and will for the rest of her life..
It started the same exact way that you're describing. He'd hit her, then apologize and be extra sweet....it's a vicious cycle. It only gets worse. Get out now!
2006-08-21 09:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, is the only answer. No matter how much you think you love him, get out of there. Do you think 10 years of getting hit is better than 5?? If you have nowhere you can go, head to the police station and they will locate you to a shelter while you are revamping your life. If you are the homeowner have the police evict him. But no matter what, DO NOT LIVE this way!!
2006-08-21 09:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by busybody12 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully????????? GET AWAY FROM HIM. Any man that will hit a woman isn't a man after all. Him getting angry is no reason to touch you in a harmful way. 5 yrs is a long time, but honestly sweetie, do you want to spend the next 10 wearing dark sun glasses and long sleeve shirts? You are a woman, men are a dime a dozen.
2006-08-21 09:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by JoAnn H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, there is a time in life where sorry just doesn't cut it and it sounds like it is that time. If you love him enough, find someone who can talk to him and help calm him down. When he does get mad, make sure your not around so you don't have to be hit. Hope this helps.
2006-08-21 09:31:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men who hit women have serious mental problems . he need to seek help if he truly loves you . HOWEVER THIS IS NOT YOUR JOB !!! Get away from him while you are still around to ask questions . There are millions of GOOD , LOVING Men out there who don't explode and hurt people . Go to OPRAH . com and look up some things that can and will happen to you too , if you don't get out . The pain of leaving someone you think you love isn't even close to the pain he can cause you if you stay.
2006-08-21 10:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of there. When he kills you I bet he will be sorry also. There are a lot of loving men that won't do this to you. 5 years is along time but you deserve to be in a loving non-violent relationship.If you have kids what are they learning?
2006-08-21 09:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by Wally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave. If he really loves you he wouldnt hit you. He would do anything to keep you from getting hurt not hurt you himself. Good luck
2006-08-21 09:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the hell out. He doesn't love u if he hits u.And he's not sorry because he keeps doing it .You're goin to have to stop the cycle
2006-08-21 09:26:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋