have u ever had sex and it hurts if so what did you do about it ?
2006-08-21 09:03:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
YA RELAX. BUT MINE WAS BECAUSE I HAD CERVICAL CANCER. MAKE SURE YOUR GETTING YOUR PAP EVERY YEAR AND TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR IF IT CONTINUES SO YOU CAN GET SOME TEST DONE TO MAKE SURE ITS NOT LIKE ME AND YOU HAVE ERVICAL CANCER OR AN STD. FIRST GET CHECKED OUT AND IF YOUR CLEAN AND CLEAR THEN RELAX AND FOCUS ON YOURSELF EXPERIENCING PLEASURE NOT ANYTHING ELSE
2006-08-21 09:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by TEMPTRESS 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There are a LOT of reasons for sex hurting, from hitting the cervix due to position through to STD's, not having sex (foreplay) prior to penetration through to emotional problems brought on by previous sexual trauma.
It is far too vast an area to say specifically what would solve the problem of painful sex, for most women it does come down to not having sex prior to penetration as this mean they are not only not lubricated but also that their vaginas are not relaxed or stretched enough to accommodate the penis. Ideally there should be sex before penetration to the point of orgasm allowing for vagina to allow for penetration, clitoris to be fully erect, also easy for women to reach orgasm and ejaculate.
If there are continuing problems it is an issue to take up with a doctor willing to investigate and help with any physical or psychological issues that may be involved.
Links:
From Ow! to Wow! - Scarleteen, aimed at young girls, also with a lot of very good information for women : http://www.scarleteen.com/sexuality/owtowow.html
All About Painful Sex, Dyspareunia, and Vulvodynia : http://www.sexwithoutpain.com
2006-08-21 16:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by Kasha 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes have heard of this turned out to be pelvic inflamatory disorder some anti biotics and a pap test sorted this out
can also use ky jelly
2006-08-21 17:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by NETTY J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeh i have the answer is time, a gentle partner and lubricant.
It gets better just give your body time to adjust
2006-08-21 18:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by laura cj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either change positions or make him stop. who likes pain? not me? although sometimes it does feel great girl i have to tell you that pain or no pain.
2006-08-21 16:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by MariLin♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try plenty of lube
2006-08-21 16:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure. Use lubricant and relax more.
2006-08-21 16:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grin and bear it and stop moaning and think thank god you got the ride
2006-08-21 16:32:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
relax, make him stop and try more foreplay.
2006-08-21 16:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by LadyDeville 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop at once
2006-08-21 16:11:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋