My roomie's lying to me yet again. I asked before what people thought so I thought I would do the same. This time my roommates been on my computer looking up hotels in the immediate area. Now she's telling me shes going to go to her hometown (12 hours away) and being vague about it, i.e. doesn't know when or for how long, next week sometime. I think she's meeting a married man, but that's all speculation on my part and could be something else entirely. It disturbs me to think she goes to all this trouble for something I don't have any say in. I know the married man in question, and I don't approve (I think he's slime and taking advantage) BUT I know I have no say what she does with her life and am not going to treat her like crap for that. The other scenarios I can imagine for this is even worse (I'd rather have the married man scenario than drugs or prostitution). So do I confront...catch her in the act maybe by accidentally running into around town, or wonder what next?
2006-08-21 08:56:19 · 6 answers · asked by SnakEve 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok well maybe you should let her get herslef into trouble i she is messing around with a married man... but if she is lying to you then tell her that if she is gonna lie then she needs to get the hell out because you don't like people lieing to you!
2006-08-21 09:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by ~ goth ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this situation will most likely ruin your caring friendship with her. She should be honest with you for you may have to come rescue her,or she may call you tell you shes in trouble and you not know where she is does not help either!
she do not see you as an access at the moment and you should explain to her the value of a honest trusting relationship, then tell her your only concern that she may get hurt is why you are verbally trying to make her think!
2006-08-21 09:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by wise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 09:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she is not interested to discuss with you, then why are you poking your nose on her personal affair? What do you think of yourself..... a nun of a Catholic church or her guardian?
2006-08-21 09:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by dnagsarkar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of her life and get one of your own
2006-08-21 09:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't any of your business what she does in her private life... just live yours...
2006-08-21 09:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋