iv smoked pot twice while we wre going out and i dont know if to tell my boyfriend of almost a year or not! HELP???! what do u think??
2006-08-21 08:48:08 · 11 answers · asked by LIZARD 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he doesn't ask I wouldn't tell.
If he asks I would be honest and explain the whole situation.
2006-08-21 08:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, if you can't tell your boyfriend of almost a year that you hit it a couple of times, perhaps you shouldn't be seeing him at all. It's a pretty petty thing to stress yourself out about. If you can't tell him that, what can you tell him? If you had just met him i'd understand, but a YEAR???? That's kind of sad. Sorry, but it is.
2006-08-21 15:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I believe you should. If you two are really meant to be together he will understand. I'm not saying what you did was right but I've been there. We are still together after seven years, three married. As long as you both are always honest with each other your relationship will be stronger.
2006-08-21 15:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by Paige J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it all depends if you think its a big deal to him, but if you stopped smoking than dont tell him. ...if you are going to continue smoking than you should tell him so that he knows what your about and if you smoke and he doesn't like it you have to decide whats more important the pot or him.
2006-08-21 15:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
smoking pot is nothing. so go ahead and tell him. if he makes a big deal out of it, then ask him this question. do you like pro wrestling? if he says he does, then tell him most wrestlers smoke weed cause it helps with the aches!
2006-08-21 15:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by John M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him. If not then everything from now on is based on a lie, and you will never be trust worthy.
So step up and act like the adult you think you are.
2006-08-21 15:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by llywarch_dindaethwy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure...maybe he smokes too..you never know...why live life in a world of lies and continually bury yourself deeper..if he really likes you...he wouldnt give a sh*t
2006-08-21 15:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell him. Let sleeping dogs lye, and be happy.
2006-08-21 16:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by stephanierudder 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no I would not tell him unless the subject come up.
2006-08-21 15:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by wise 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nah, keep it to yourself...
2006-08-21 15:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋