She is really very pretty & very slim. She's smart, maybe a little bit of a snob (she admits this) & really picky.
She has never even KISSED (aside from a peck) a guy. Is she abnormal? She's also not religious but conservative & a traditionalist politically.
Should she not tell guys this (guys: would you be scared off like there is something wrong w/ her or there must be a reason why she is still a virgin?).
She is always asking me & I'm not sure what to say....
2006-08-21 08:41:34 · 15 answers · asked by tara c 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Think about what you are asking. Sure, there are unmarried, single women that have never had sex in their entire lifetime and die a virgin. That does not make them anything different than anyone else except that they are still virgins. That's neither good nor bad. It's just their choices and nobody else's.
If your friend is still a virgin, good for her. I hope she finds the person she's looking for. More power to her. In the meantime, consider her normal, wholesome and worthy of respect as any other woman, virgin or not. It's her choice, not yours.
2006-08-21 08:54:01 · answer #1 · answered by Morphious 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's not abnormal, just probably afraid to let anyone too close. And I'm proud that she's still a virgin. Not many are these days. There's nothing wrong with her! She's just not ready.
2006-08-21 15:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My sister is a 29 yo virgin and is getting married in a few months. They will be each other's first. He's 31.
2006-08-21 16:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My aunt (aunt in-law?) claims to have never been with a man, or a woman. She's well over 60 and comes from a very traditional conservative Thai family. Never married so never sex.
Kind of sad.
2006-08-21 16:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by TC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not believe this but my sister is actually 31 years old and she's still waiting for mister right, and you know she will. Thats all, many might think your sister and mine are weird but the right person who would appreciate their uniqueness, will come by.( I really hope soon)
Oh tell your sister she really has to tell the guy because he will find out. if the guy is taken by surprise she will act irrationally.
2006-08-21 15:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by WICCA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with her. It's her choice, and really she shouldn't have to talk about it with anyone unless she wants to. And if someone were to ask she should just tell them it's none of their business. Good for your friend for doing what she feels is right for her!
2006-08-21 18:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by East of Eden 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My 20 year old best friend is a virgin. Its a choice she has made. Get this...she isn't christian. She's Buddhist.
2006-08-21 16:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by murph_ltt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds just like my best friend and she is 29 as well.
2006-08-21 15:49:52 · answer #8 · answered by The Steele's 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know some one in his 40's. It's just a personal choice and there's nothing wrong with it.
2006-08-21 15:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by Nursen' 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And I though I was "late" when I lost my virginity at 21. Stupid me!
2006-08-21 15:50:29 · answer #10 · answered by celia3018 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋