an would you make sure if your not u would to make him happy
2006-08-21 08:40:29 · 16 answers · asked by latinman e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
So the basis of the relationship is sex ? And the pivotal point - that about which all else revolves - is that the guy gets sex no matter what ?
Well, hmmmmm, if THAT was the basis and if it was a valid one then, gee, I guess the female should not get angry when the guy seeks sex outside the relationship and, instead, should do her best to make sure he does get that "relief."
HOWEVER, since the assumption is COMPLETELY invalid and based on the erroneous belief that a guy "has got to have sex" or the world has, indeed, tilted differently on its axis and the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse are on their way to bring about the end of the world, then the answer has to be that a woman gets upset when a man seeks sex outside the bonds of a relationship because:
it is a complete betrayal of the relationship and takes what is supposed to be a bond of trust and love down to a primal urge.
I beseech you to never get married, by the way.
2006-08-21 08:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by two 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"Man you jus got knocked to Fu#k out", I was monitoring the responses to your question, thoes women just jumped all over ur A$$. Women will always hit u for ten when it comes to the horn issue, do you know if a woman has asked this question the responses would have been different, you would have heard, "he's cheatin on you or he getting it from somewhere else, or leave his A$$", but all in all they would have been more supportive rather than dissing you, they all want there cake and eat all off it, dont be supprised SHE is getting it elsewhere thats why shes not giving it up, so my friend, keep ur head high and dont beg, cause that what she wants, the most important thing is to do the right thing. LEAVE her A$$, you MAKE YOUR LIFE happy. Cause the bottom line is living life happy.
2006-08-21 16:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good point, although i am not a woman. i am, however, a lesbian trapped in a man's body, if that counts. but to answer your question, it is the man's fault for screwing around. that is the risk you take when you get married. HOWEVER, i don't know how many couples i've known where the woman either cuts the guy off sexually or lets herself go and balloons up to 250 lbs, and the guy eventually cheats on her. but that goes both ways. it's never excuse-able, but at least there is a cause and effect.
2006-08-21 15:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad because he is my man, and that means he made a promise to be faithful to me. If my man were to have a problem with how often we have sex then I would expect him to trust me enough to talk it out with me rather than go looking for it elsewhere. If he were able to talk to me about that it would build my trust for him and make me want to make sure he is happy.
2006-08-21 15:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jillian D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it's like she's no use to you at all...it's not always right to make it out with someone else even if your woman is not sexually active with her man..they should talk about it. it's a serious matter
2006-08-21 15:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by dede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never do anything for a guy to make him happy when it comes to sex if u dont want it dont do it and well about him going for another sorce if ur planning on staying with him and u care about him even a little then u would care about him having sex with another woman that is what i think
2006-08-21 15:49:58 · answer #6 · answered by jackie06babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it's still wrong! It's women* by the way. Because ur still cheating. It's not her fault. We are not ur playtoys. U can't, u need control, especially the cheaters. huh? I think it's wrong to please guys, those are whores. Usually 15 y/o girls who are whores or end up pregnant. I am much older, but I still think it's wrong of her. And wrong for a guy to have sex w some1 else. It says immature loser. There are other things if ur that pathetic.
2006-08-21 15:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she need to put out or get out men need sex and woman need think about that before they cut off their man
2006-08-21 15:53:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This ? cannot be answered on the facts you have given. Why is there no sexual activity between you.......what's the circumstances.
2006-08-21 15:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by bob714412 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your woman has got to give up the booty....thats just the way it is. We guys need this...except the one who just likes talking, kissing and cuddling.
2006-08-21 15:54:30 · answer #10 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋