Gays and love?

Question

Finally does gay love exists?

Can 2 homos male or female live forever in love?

Can they really make family through this love?

In Greece its a BIG NO.How about China-Europe-America?

Answer 1

of course 2 homosexuals can love. they are still people, you know. geez

Answer 2

I'm just going to throw an interesting little spin on the whole idea of love and then give my thoughts on the question.

Many researchers now think of love and believe it to be nothing more than an addiction--an addiction to the feelings caused by the chemicals produced in the body in response to certain characteristics in another human being. The body absolutely cannot distinguish between male and female when it responds to those characteristics (which are different for each individual); it simply reacts to them by causing the brain to produce the chemicals we know as endorphins (and other hormones). Again, these chemicals create a feeling in our bodies, be it the feeling of comfort, lust/sexual desire, etc., and these researchers believe we can be addicted to these feelings in ways strikingly similar to narcotics.

Now that said, think for a while about a couple (homo- or hetero- sexual) that has been together for many years. How often do you hear a phrase such as "...lost the spark..." or "...there's no more passion..." Is it just that, like many addictions, our body has grown immune to the effects of the chemical and that we need more and more of it to create the desired result? To me this is a great explanation why people are unfaithful to the one they "love"--they need to feed the addiction, and many times somebody else has that something a little different...a little more potent, if you will...that will give them the feelings they no longer have with their partner. So do people really, truly LOVE someone? Or is it just an addiction?

ANYWAY, that aside, I personally believe that any two people can indeed live happily ever after in "love" (or a perpetual state of addiction) if there are enough characteristics in their partner to endlessly stimulate them. I believe that the phrase "Love knows no bounds" is true. I've never found myself "in love" with a person of the same sex (and quite frankly I'm repulsed at the idea that I could love another of the same sex...yet I'm not at all put off by others who do), but who could possibly say that some day I might not find somebody who indeed has all those characteristics my body reacts to favorably...even if they are of the same sex?

Besides; one can love another human being with all their heart and not be in sexual relationship with them.

Hmm...enough rambling, I think....In the VERY short answer, I say "yes, gay love exists" As far as a family, it depends on your definition...mine would say "yes" again.

In America, everybody has a different point of view whether or not it is acceptable (and it, not surprisingly, is hugely impacted by the persons' environment/upbringing and religious beliefs)

Answer 3

When people are in love, nobody can stop that. They can prevent the union of gay couples, but the love is still there.

Some countries are beginning to accept gay marriage, but I don't think it will be a worldwide acceptance for a very very long time.
I know a gay couple that have adopted and are now foster parents to 4-5 kids. They make a great family. Humans are too judgmental. I think the world would be a much nicer place if we mind our own business.

Answer 4

First let me say that I'm not gay, nor am I a professional. Like about 99% of the people on here, I only have my opinion.

I think that gay love exist. I think two gay men or women can live together, and yes, the law allows them to adopt kids too. And facts say that children of gay parents are not automatically gay too. I know of several couples and they are nice and they have been together for years. Most gays only ask to be left alone to live their lives.

Now, having said that, let me say that I honestly believe that people are not born gay or straight. I think their life experiences and choices dictate the choice they make related to sex. I know of studies that say that gay people have an additional chemical in their brain that makes them gay. I'm not smart enough to respond to that perspective, but if you believe that then you would believe that being gay is a sickness like Downs Syndrome.

Lastly, and here is where I upset people, I think since being gay is a choice, and if a gay person believes in God and the Bible, the Torah or the Koran, then gay people are living in sin. Many of you will attack my point here, but as I respect your perspective, I hope you respect mine.

TX Guy

Answer 5

People in America do this and they do live for life. I am not gay, but I have seen it and yes they do adopt and have a marriage in heart since it is not legal yet. People stay together until death. Some people accept it and have them at family gatherings. It depends on the community and the specific family if it is accepted. Some places are more accepting. My mother is gay and her friends and family accept her and her partner. They have been together for 10 years now. It lasts a great deal longer than a great deal of straight relationships in many cases.

Answer 6

First of all, there are teams of roaming homosexuals who focus in on these questions. So, beware that the answers you receive may be very skewed and not a true random sampling of the populace.

My opinion, homosexuality is an affront to God. Therefore, love, in it's purest form, can never truly happen between two homos. Lust will destroy it every time...because homosexuality is by nature against what is holy and pure and good. Gay couples can't keep it together because the nature of what they are doing, goes against the nature of love. Lust and love are not the same thing.

The more morally bankrupted a society gets, the more they are open to homosexual marriage etc. So, it is a question of moral eyesight.

Answer 7

Yes yes yes all very possible and happening as we speak. The society you live in can make it quite impossible to have the three things out in the open. That doesn't mean they don't exist. Yes, even in Greece. I'm from Holland by the way.

Answer 8

hy gay partners here davvey and stevvie here who in the hell are you calling homos?? we are godam people no different than you are idiott!! and yes we have been togerther for 5 years now and we are 21, hard working succesful, have 2 or 3 jobs going, pay taxes, etc, and we have a ton of rriends that either straight gay couples , or lesbianbs that visitt us and stuff etc, and we resent you calling us homos idiott, in greece its no big deal right, it should be that way here, if people like you would stop ming there own godam business, get a life idiott!!

Answer 9

I don't think sexual preference has anything to do with whether or not people will be in love forever. If you look around, plenty of striaght couples don't stay in marriages forever. Relationships take work. So, if you still have to ask that question, then, um, it seems more like you are a homophobe and are just trying to get other people to be "with you" on it.

Answer 10

I'm in America. I've seen gay men make a life long love. They couldn't get married but died together in their 70's still in love. But I have yet to see two lesbian women make it work. One always cheats on the other with a man. There's nothing like a good hunk of wood every once in a while.

Answer 11

Homosexual love does exist, in the same various forms as heterosexual love exists. Many gay and lesbian couples do start succesfully and happy families as an expression of their love, as do many heterosexual couples.
I'm not sure about other countries...there still is a lot of ignorance about homosexuals in America unfortunately...there are many who don't understand that gender is not a determinant of whether or not you love someone.