Is it ok to make out with other guys(rather there is just one other guy), even if u have a proper bf. The bf is really sweet and stuff. Am i being a *****?
2006-08-21 08:27:23 · 21 answers · asked by soop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It depends on the relationship you have with your boyfriend. If its an open relationship it's to be expected ... if it's monogamous than it is wrong. I suggest that you tell your boyfriend that your relationship is an open one ... and you want to hoe around a 'lil before settling down.
2006-08-21 08:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im so sorry to say this, but it is so not fair to your bf to be making out with other guys, whether it is one or fifteen others. The only way that it would be ok is if you sat down with your bf and both decided it was ok to see (or make out as you say) with other people. Until then, I say you are a *****.
2006-08-21 15:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by c_69_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the wrong all the way. Stop and loose the bf if you want to continue with this other guy. You are going to hurt someone and I don't think you really want to . Do the right thing and be with one or the other.
2006-08-21 15:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by anne04char 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think frist of all you should ask to yourself with whome you are feeling more bound physicaly as well as mentaly. do u want only fun with the other guy? then its really bad or if u love the other guy from bottom of your heart then u should talk with your bf & move out. hope your bf could understand & someday he will forgive u. don't play game both side. it will hart everybody including u. it will running your life. b'cause u can't hide truth. oneday it will comeout.
2006-08-21 18:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to make out with whoever you want as long as you're single -- boyfriend or no boyfriend. Once you're married or engaged, you really can't do that. That's the difference between being single and being married. There's no real commitment until you're married.
2006-08-21 15:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by writeitout2005 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reverse the positions-how would you feel if he were kissing others? The fact that you are asking for help(maybe sectretly hoping someone will tell you it's allright?) means that you are feeling guilty- you know in your heart that it's wrong. Stop it or let your BF go; it;s SO not fair to him.
2006-08-22 01:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not okay under any circumstance to cheat on someone your in a relationship with. Especially if you yourself are already feeling a little guilty. That only confirms that what you've done is wrong.
2006-08-21 16:11:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should have considered this before you got a boyfriend. And no, how could you kiss him with a straight face after doing that.
2006-08-21 15:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by leikevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be fair you need to leave the bf. I would be pist if someone did that to me. Yes it is $lutty to do to another person.
2006-08-21 17:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by reniebambie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not experiment For an experience.
If you are satisfied with what you have,
Do not run after what you crave
Do not be a sleeper, be a shoe
Be careful & right with whom you do.
2006-08-21 22:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by JD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋