..just last week i scared the Sh!t outta my frend...when there was power faliure in our street...i did some crazy ghosts kinda things!...she was so scared that she started crying...and now she is not talking to me...i tried saying sorry and stuff...but she doesnt talk to me!!.. how can i make her talk to me again??
2006-08-21 08:11:56 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
Maybe you scared her because she's really a ghost and she's worried you've clued into her mystery.
Seriously? Time heals all. Let her know you're sorry, it was foolish, and you won't do it again.
Then, DON'T do it again. Some people don't like to be scared, even if it's fun scaring them.
2006-08-21 08:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make her do anything. Just like she couldn't make you stop scaring her. If you really care about her try to clue in to what she asks of you. Maybe there's a past that you don't know about. Something really bad could have happened to her as a child and you don't know about it then you scaring her just brought it all back. or she could just be really scared of ghosts.
If you really care about your friendship try to make amends by apologizing in a big way make a fool of yourself. than if she still doesn't talk to you (I'd be surprised if she didn't ever talk to you again) just know you messed up and don't do it to anyone else. I mean listen to other peoples requests next time. It's funny the first time but continuing when they ask you to stop is just plain mean.
2006-08-21 08:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by just me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must have really frightened her. I suggest you just give her some space right now. After a few more days she will come around. Some people just can't appreciate a good scare and you have to respect their boundaries if you want to remain friends. It's okay. you didn't know how she would feel about it and you were just having some fun. But now you do know and I'm sure you won't do that to her again. Good luck
2006-08-21 08:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by Amy A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people are really sensitive about that type of things ....
I suggest if she wont talk to you, send her a letter ....
in it write that you are sorry and had no intentions of scaring her that badly .... and that it was just for fun
Make the letter cute and stuff then send it to her in the mail, but dont put your return address on it b/c if she IS mad enough chances are she wont open it if she sees its from you ....
Good Luck!
2006-08-21 08:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just wait a while... maybe write her a letter saying something along the lines of 'I was just having some fun that night- I thought we'd laugh about it- I didn't realize It would scare you so badly...' etc.
Maybe try doing something nice for her. Be creative.
Best of Luck.
2006-08-21 08:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Isabella 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably feels a little humiliated and maybe like you're secretly laughing at her. Don't laugh about it with your other friends because she'll be able to tell. Go out of your way to be nice to her. Invite her over and let her know that you really want her to come.
2006-08-21 08:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's so fun I would love to have a friend as crazy and energetic as you. I doubt you would scare me so easy tho. If she can't appreciate your humor, no worries, there are others that will. next time pick on a guy WITH your girl friend, that would be really funny.
2006-08-21 08:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by tenaciousd 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she was badly frightened by your childish prank I cannot say I blame her.
Think twice before acting on silly impulses
They can cause more harm than good
2006-08-21 08:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by witchfromoz2003 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is just going to have to take some time. she feels as if you took advantage of her and she needs time to get over that. honestly, you shouldn't have done that. what if the tables were turned? what if she did that to you? think about how you would feel and be honest. try to understand where she is coming from and give her time.
2006-08-21 08:21:10 · answer #9 · answered by Kokoa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just let it go she will come around in time ..right now its probably more her pride that is hurt ... this is not that big a deal she will get over it and of she doesn't then she was probably looking for a way to not talk to you anyway
2006-08-21 08:19:37 · answer #10 · answered by ptmamas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋