Ok , first I asked if going out with other guys when your married is wrong, and most answered no!! Then I asked if it was wrong my hubby wants me to F*** other women and you said I WAS WRONG!!! My definition of "Going out" means going to the bar hanging or chillin at my guy friends house!!! Hope thats cleared up: now is it wrong when your married to " Hang" with other guys?, and is it wrong my hubby wants me to F*** other women?!!!
2006-08-21 08:11:33 · 24 answers · asked by princessboo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok it is fine for u to go out with ur guy friends that is ok u still need a life away from ur hubby and if ur ok with with having sex with another women and him might end up screwing around with her then that is ur thing but u also might give him an idea that it is ok for him to go behind ur back and mess around with other people
2006-08-21 08:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by jackie06babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good thing about being an adult is that you can set your own rules. If you and your husband agree that the relationship that you described is OK...then it's OK. It might be wrong for you but right for someone else, but it doesn't matter what others think. You are only obligated to be on the same page with your husband. I'd give you more advice but my 16 yr old daughter reads my answers and i don't want her to know this yet.
good luck
2006-08-21 15:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong if you want to go and hang out with other guys as long as you and your husband know that a line will never be crossed. And as for him wanting you to have sex with other women, that's a preference. If its something that you are also interested in then go for it and if not ask him to let it go.
2006-08-21 15:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are wrong. Married means you have a man in your life, and dont need to hang out with other guys.
And if your husband wants you to screw around with other women, then he has no respect for you.
In my opinion both cases consist of a strong lack of morals.
2006-08-21 15:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some actions are right for some and wrong for others. you and your husband must be the judge, as should the other people you involve in your marriage. as long as everyone is under the same expectations, and has no fears or jealosy problems, so long as everyone understands why the other wants to involve other people in their sex life, and so long as everyone understands the rules and boundaries beforehand, and you write all of this out and sign a contract so that you everyone is clear and communicative--sure! i don't think there's anything wrong with mixing it up a little!
good luck though. sounds like risky business to me, now that i think about it.
p.s. you should do what you want to do, and if your husband doesn't like it, tell him to go f*** himself.
2006-08-21 15:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by mirage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong to go HANG OUT with other guys when married, and if your husband wants to "DO" other women then divorce him. I can give you the phone number of a really great attorney.
2006-08-21 15:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a personal choice.
1) You can hang out with anyone you want, if it is not going to cause a problem in your marriage.
2) Do you want to have sex with other women?
2006-08-21 15:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by Tyler Durdin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to 'hang' with other men, and he wants to 'be' with other women...why are you married? My opinion is that it's wrong what both of you are doing or wanting to do.
2006-08-21 15:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is sick and I'm sure he hopes you will so he can join in that's his excuse for allowing it in the first place!Next time he ask go sure when i can bring a man home and you just watch see how he acts!!I'm sure he would say hell no and if he doesn't then he don't give a damn about you and you need to leave the sick perv!
2006-08-21 15:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with a woman if you don't want to.
Also, don't put too much stock in what people say here. Many are a bit thick in the head.
2006-08-21 15:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋