What makes women such gorgeous and desirable beings?

Question

LOL - Okay, at least most of them! ... But seriously, have you ever thought about what it is “exactly” about women that makes us guys (nothing against gays, lesbians, etc. btw) go totally crazy over them? ... What other forces besides the obvious ones (i.e. love; hormonal / chemical based lust, sexuality and sensuality; and the evolutionary need for procreation) maybe at work here (e.g. the intellectual interactions, the need for a partner, etc.)? For instance, why is it so sweet to have a romantic dinner with a woman even if you know you are not necessarily going to have sex with her? ... In all, can you capture the essence of what makes women such wonderfully gorgeous and desirable creatures? ... Serious answers only, please.

DomC - You mean you "Dom"; don't you? LOL LOL

WOW - Thank you people for some surprisingly thoughtful answers.

Answer 1

I think it's just a part of our genetic make-up. As human beings, the one thing we search after most in our lives is love. Yes, we all have hormonal cravings and such, but finding that one guy/girl that makes our heart do flip-flops when they only smile at us is what we really crave. It's that security in knowing that they will always be that one person who completely understands you and will love you unconditionally. That one person that you can come home to every day after work and be content with just snuggling up on the couch and talking about nothing in particular. That one person that you know without a doubt was meant for you. And you can give your body to that person and regardless of all the stereo-types and myths of what makes a good lover, nobody on this entire planet can compare to how wonderfully perfect they make you feel. I don't think anybody really knows "why" we are the way we are. We. Just. Are. Simple as that. =)

Answer 2

This I know~ Well women that are gorgeous work very hard to keep themselves at a level of desire.

Make up, clothes, hair, nails, and ones attitude. When all this is together and we know it...We put out this natural and very obvious sent of try and catch me if you can....Some men we never phase others cant keep there hands off and some men are great about being around a women who is very sexy and together...

Not every friendship should be about sex. You need balance and you need interaction with out the sheets and if you can have that in your life you are that much more ahead of the game then most men.....

Answer 3

You know as a King, one who knows a lot of sh-it, women are not desirable!! Only a selected few!! Let the King teach you some things about a woman:
1st Lets weed out the money-grubbing women that has devious intentions!! 75%
2nd Lets delete the ones who are controlling and not free!! 15%

that leaves us, real men Kings with only 10%!! Thats nothing to be desirable about that! You know it kind of makes me sick to see them act all pretty, with too much make up and fake everything, when they can be a very sneaky, treacherous being!!!

Answer 4

maturity...on yall's part...if you can be happy with just a romantic dinner and not expect anything afterwards, that is a sign of maturity. yall are finally coming around to the softer side. its not always about the birds and the bees. its important to have an emotional connection that goes so far beyond the physical touch. women are naturally delicate beings. men are not, to say it nicely. being the strong, hard, undelicate creatures you are, you want something soft to hold on to.

Answer 5

personality and sexual magnetism. btw, gay guys love these woman as well. not for sex reasons, obviously, but for the whole aura of a woman. and love on the male part. A woman can be most desirable for one man, and not be desirable to another. One guy i was with never even showed me the love i was entitled to. (course i was younger back then and didn't know better) but the man i am marrying, spoils me to death and it's wonderfull. it's really is all about love. he loves me, i love him. and we make a constant effort to make each other happy. his love for me, inspires me to look my best, to cook and clean, to do his laundry, and to have babies with him. same as my love for him inspires him to work hard to pay the bills, make sure the bills are paid and there is food on the table, to take me out and show me off to his friends, and want to have babies together. it's also about maturity. i don't believe if we had begun 15 years ago back when our lives first crossed we would have made it the way we do now.

so you could say, it's you men that make us so desirable.

Answer 6

Genetic imperative, the need to get your DNA genes to the next generation. We are hard wired to desires healthy and fertile women. The desirable traits in woman can be linked back to either health or fertility.

Not very romantic, but the truth.

Answer 7

What makes women such gorgeous and desirable beings?

To enter the mans' world,of course.

Answer 8

It really just boils down to genetics. I can't explain why I love a girls legs and breasts any more than she can explain why she likes a guys butt and abs. I know you wanted an answer other than chemical based/evolution, but it really is all genetic. We are slaves to our bodies in that respect.

You mentioned why just eating dinner with a pretty girl is a turn on. Genetics controls all of that. Just the sound of her feminine voice, big eyes, flowery smelll, even something as simple as the sound of her high pitched sneeze is cute and sexy and all because of our slavery to our genetics. But I like this form of slavery, allows for more enjoyment of pretty ladies. In my case, one pretty lady cause I'm married :)

Answer 9

You sound like a true woman lover and a hopeless romantic and there's nothing wrong with that! One possible answer is that since women are obviously, by nature, many things that a man is not...perhaps what you feel is complete! A yin yang kinda thing.

Answer 10

Plastic Surgery.