now in days a good body means having big hips, big breast and a big but.me on the on the other hand is slim all over, how can i keep confidence of myself and or not have low self-estem?
2006-08-21 08:05:23 · 6 answers · asked by jamille 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Lift weights and build your muscles. Also work on your abs. Who cares if your frame is small, if you have the "Usher" line, women (or men your choice) will go crazy for you!!
2006-08-21 08:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by sdarp1322 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want big breasts and big hips, go to gym and start working out. It will make you feel you are in shape and therefore, give you confidence. You will also have to change your thinking, not everyone think like that. I am sure you have other good qualities that you are proud of. There is no need to feel sorry.
2006-08-21 15:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by PF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure and be active and stay fit to keep things good and tight!! also remember everyone's body is different and absolutely no one is perfect--look at all the actresses with different breast sizes, butt sizes, pale/dark skin they are all beautiful in their own way and are all insecure about something. Be confident and go with what you got!!
2006-08-21 16:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by *walkinthelight* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds just like me. Do lotsa soul searching and your self-esteem will grow with time. When you feel good about your body (even if you're round,oval,square or rectangular), you'll radiate a really beautiful aura that's gonna attract people.
Anyway, about clothes, you can wear almost everything. Just look at the models on the runway. They can get away with anything.
2006-08-21 15:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to wear skin tight clothes as it will show off the exact shape of your body. instead wear a padded bra with a simple vest top...not too tight and such things as combats, long flowing skirts...for night-time an alter neck top to make the most of that cleavage and a pencil skirt to enhance your hips... good luck honey x Jade :) x
2006-08-21 15:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only reason girls fret about their body weight is because of guys. the only reason guys want a girl with a nice body is because they think a great body comes with great sex.
having a good body doesn't bring welcome attention, it attracts guys who want to have sex. YOU WANT FLAWS... believe me... it builds character, character builds a strong foundation... who cares about having a "good" body? if you are healthy and happy then what's it matter?
2006-08-25 14:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋