She is somebody who we go out with occasionally. She doesn't have a b/f at the moment, or I wouldn't ask. I am attracted to her, we we go out we touch and giggle. I just can't get over the hump of asking her flat out, or should I give more hints. I don't want her for myself, well yes I do, but I want my hubby to be there with us. Anybody ever in the same boat? What did you do? What should I do? Would rejection ruin our friendship?
2006-08-21 07:54:11 · 15 answers · asked by chawinters22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i would get your hubby to ask her ! it will probably sound better from him, as afterall he is a bloke and she might make a joke of it , then consider it, if you have no luck, e-mail me , i would love to do this
2006-08-22 02:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As it has been stated it could ruin your marriage, I would be more concerned for the marriage than the friendship. However to each his own, If you and your hubby are down with that, then just talk to her. When you say touch what kind of touch? Like a brush on the arm or what? There are all different types of touching, or you could just lean in for that kiss. That always works.. Umm Good Luck I guess..
2006-08-21 08:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to ruin your relationship. Threesomes only work on porn and in movies. Anyone who actually goes through with it, with the exception of a small few, ruin their otherwise healthy loving relationships. Why? Because your husband is sure to lust after this women afterward. Trust me! He will. NO SERIOUSLY. There's no way of getting around it. You will feel insecure and jealous after that. Why do you need another person? Don't tell me the lame excuse, "We just wanna try something different, blah blah blah"
Don't say I didn't warn you. You're relationship will never be the same - IN A BAD WAY!!!!!!!!
2006-08-21 08:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If drinking is involved, ask her over to the house afterwards and just let the conversation drift towards you and her. Then if she seems interested, kiss her and let your hubby watch. If she enjoys herself, it wont be long before all of you are going at it.
2006-08-21 08:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might and even if she done it it could destroy your friendship in the long run!!So i wouldnt really push it with her id go find someone else,regardless how you feel is your friendship more important or a 3 some?Think about that one good luck !
2006-08-21 08:03:05 · answer #5 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it will ruin anything if you are honest about everything. Tell her what she is allowed to do to him and tell him what he is allowed to do to her and you should be good. Dont flat out ask, ask her what she thinks maybe while drinking in a hot tub.
2006-08-21 08:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by ColdHustle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could very well ruin your friendship. Or, it could ruin your marriage. You are in dangerous waters right now.
2006-08-21 08:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by akristel2003 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if your hubby is ok with it, then have him ask her. but it could ruin your friendship with her if she's not into it, if you ask her. have your husband joke about it with her. see how she reacts. then go from there.
2006-08-21 08:03:13 · answer #8 · answered by angela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she has ever? What she thinks of that type situation? Talk it over. No hit, no harm, no foul. You might be surprised.
2006-08-21 08:02:38 · answer #9 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what I think? you shoud put a gun to your head, blow your brains and then leave the woman and your husband happy so they can enjoy life.
2006-08-21 08:03:24 · answer #10 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋