A friend of yours is upset at you b/c of a disagreement about money. This friend wants to get at you and so goes about spreading stuff you had said during private conversations held before the disagreement. However, once the money issue is settled to everyone's satisfaction, your friend wants to go back being chummy again. Is it possible, or even wise, to have a close friendship with that person again?
2006-08-21 07:48:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
no i wouldn't!! you stated above that this person is a friend! I'm sorry to inform you but friends don't act that way or treat they're buds that way!! i hate people like this person you are talking about i think they must have some mental problem are they were abused when they were kids!! anyways kick they're *** to the curb!! and find a better Friend!!
2006-08-21 07:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are too many good people out in the world to try to be friends with this person. Spreading private things from your conversations should be a complete relationship killer....how can you trust that person again? It's not wise.
2006-08-21 14:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by AFL lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure why you consider this a friend. If they are revealing things that you said to them in confidence, they don't value your friendship period. (Even if you are upset at someone). I would advise you to recognize what kind of person this is and just know going forward that they are not to really be trusted. Sorry!
2006-08-21 14:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by Nik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can trust a person after they say personal things you told them in confidence to other people? I couldn't. If they did it before, they are going to do it again. I would rather be alone with no friends, then to have one who I can't trust. There is no shortage of friends online. Move on . . .
2006-08-21 14:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by Ven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't still be their friend. Real friends don't do stuff like that so I would just end the friendship.
2006-08-21 14:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hitting below the belt or over it r on it doesn't matter! A friend is a friend is a friend! I will give him / her a long rope!
2006-08-21 14:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah if i tell stuuf in private conversations i trust it to stay private. i'd never be as close to them as i was before.
2006-08-21 14:57:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres and old saying
"Keep your freinds close and your enemies even closer."
and that guy is certainly NOT your friend.
got it?
2006-08-21 14:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget that relationship. Nothing good will come of it.
2006-08-21 14:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by ♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope,,that isn't a friend if that happens
2006-08-21 14:54:08 · answer #10 · answered by Robin P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋