I have been having this best friend guy since I entered to school life, from the very first day. I really don't know y he had changed so suddenly! We both went to follow a course at an institute. But unfortunately we were sorted in to 2 different classes. I foud this guy not so close to me as before. Because there were 2 gals with him all the time along. He swayed with em. It was really pathetic. I couldn't hold it and I burst in to crying in my mind. He should have stayed with me since I didn't have any1 to chat with. Everytime I looked for him, he was with those to bit__es! I really SMSed him asking about what had hapend to him. He stood silent. Please I still feel like I'm given up! Why is it? He wants to break up from the friendship? Please answer, I have no option! I feel stupid about him. Is this a friendship? I truly appreciate what friendship is! Please tell me what I gotta do!
2006-08-21 07:35:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Play it cool.... He must know deep down that you are bugged... That probably makes him feel superior... I had that happen to me years ago and I ****** an attitude and started ignoring him.. Constantly ignoring him... Finally, he started following me around and wondering why I was ignoring him... Its all a mind game
2006-08-21 07:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by Lea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
That's a good question you've asked...Is this friendship? Sounds like you see your friend as your property and that can be rather suffocating.
It can be healthy for both of you to interact with other people, make new friends, that way you guys will have new stuff to talk about and get to spend quality time together.
A little bit of jealousy is normal in any relationship, but be aware to not let it grow out of control and ruin things for yourself.
Give him some space and get busy with other things that you find interesting. May be you will also get to meet other friends and expand your social circle.
Hope this helps.
All the best.
2006-08-21 14:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two of you are on different paths now, and if he is hanging out with these two girls right now it is for 2 reasons only, he is a homosexual or this is his ticket to getting close to others girls and haveing as many dates as he wants. You my friend are old news to him unfortunately and I really suggest you find a new group to hang with and make yourself some new friends, because by the sound of it he isn't even inviting you into his new friendship with these two girls........ and just to ask.......... if you were invited, would you become apart of those friends to be apart of your friends life? I think your answer would be no. I think your friendship has grown apart as many peoples do........ I wish you good luck and blessed be.
2006-08-21 14:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is no way to act if your really are true long time school Friends. you should be happy that he has Friends as well as you, people can be Friends with more than just one person, as far as changing we all change as well grow older, if you feel he was a good friend at one time in your life, I think, you should feel honored that you had the opportunity to be a Friend to some one that you felt good around ,I call this as you were blessed. I hope the best for you. That you find a way to accept things as they are and that time changes people. Good luck to you.
2006-08-21 15:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That seems a little inconsiderate of him ,confront him and ask him why he's been acting so differently.But dont maker him feel pressured.Maybe he feels that since you guys are getting older, you should be doing a few more things on your own. That doesn't mean that he doesn't consider you his bf anymore Try meeting other people also don't just rely on him as being your only friend.
2006-08-21 14:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by Frograid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
become more mature...you have to understand that people change when they grow up, if you want to stay friends with him you have to make an effort to see him. If he doesn't feel the same way then he's probably not the type of friend that you want to hang around anyways. Friends come and go sometimes, find others that appreciate you more
2006-08-21 14:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over our lives, people grow apart and change and we find new friends along the way. That is what this sounds like to me. He has changed and you haven't yet so he has left you in the dust. Don't live your life by fear. Get out there and meet some new people and you will find out who you really are too. It is normal for this to happen.
2006-08-21 14:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by joandi_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up and smell the coffee. He might have been your best friend, but you weren't his. I think you need to take another look at how close you were. How could you be so mistaken about a "best friend."
He was really simply a friend. "Best friends" stand the test of time and I don't think you were friends long enough. Of course, I could be wrong. How long were you friends for??
2006-08-21 14:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by tyreanpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all get a grip. The two of you are going in different directions thats all. Find friends other than him, your own friends.
2006-08-21 14:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by shirley e 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him out for a drink or coffee and tell him what's wrong...And ask him directly if he's ready to give up a friendship of years...and if he says yes at least you have a direct answer.
2006-08-21 14:46:15 · answer #10 · answered by pdcmariona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋