you break up,try to get back together,many times. love/hate each other, but deep down inside,the both of you know that you are meant to be together. one person gets married,have 2kids with another,gets divorced after 1 year and the two of you is still in love. you have been apart for 10 years or more. kept in contact. now the situation has occuured where you two can possibly be together again.Will this relationship work or not?
2006-08-21 07:28:48 · 9 answers · asked by m&m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is possible you two have had separate experiences in life that will allow you to move beyond the differences you had in the past. If you have kept in touch all along, and gotten along well all along, it is worth a try if it is something you both want.
2006-08-21 07:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by shirley_corsini 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Deep down inside, the both of you know that you are meant to be together." This is a romantic fantasy, not reality. You need to step back and use your brains. Yes, it is possible that this relationship can work, but relationships take hard work and commitment. Intense feelings can't keep a relationship going for very long.
What are the things that have pushed you apart in the past? Can those things be overcome? With a divorce and two kids in the mix, now there are further difficulties. How will you handle them?
Think. Evaluate. Plan. Use your brain not your passion to make a rational decision.
2006-08-21 14:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck with that, there is no way it will work. You said it yourself, love/hate. There is no perfect relationship, but still, you would only be setting youself for a disaster. If you have a child together just keep it friends. Do you really want to put your kid through a possible divorce? If you don't then just move on, there is no meant to be together. It's all about finding who you are the happiest with, not some fairytale story or sappy movie ending.
2006-08-21 14:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by shadyaftermath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both caring and loving the other after 10 years...Then anything is possible
2006-08-21 18:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly probably not, i hate to be the bearer of bad news but just take your child move on find someone new
God Bless
LusTlesS
2006-08-21 14:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by LusTlesS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not. Maybe you should try to find someone else, it would make you much more happier and keep your mind off of him.
2006-08-21 14:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by tabatha1333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PROB NOT BUT THEN IF YOU DONT TRY YOU WILL NEVER KNOW AND YOU COULD REGRET IT LATER ON IN LIFE SIT AND HAVE A CHAT AND SEE WHAT CAN OR CANNOT BE DONE.
2006-08-21 14:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should hang in thier it will work out if it is ment to be.
2006-08-21 14:52:22 · answer #8 · answered by crissy0345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2006-08-21 14:34:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋