2006-08-21 07:25:56 · 41 answers · asked by meg s 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
don't bevain.Live life how the lord would want you to
2006-08-21 07:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I was young I was anorexic. That was 21 years ago. (I am 41 now). I was lucky to be cured by the time I was 20. I almost died from not eating. If you make yourself throw up, then you are bulimic and you will eventually die from it unless you get help. When you get older, you will realize how stupid it was to be that way. I know when I think back about it, I would never starve myself to death again. It's something young people through, so please get help. Oh and there is no guy in this whole world worth starving for. He may eventually leave you for doing it anyway. If a guy loves you, he supposed love you at 110 lbs and if you get sick, or even gain some weight, he should still be there for you. Anything else is superficial.
2006-08-21 07:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) 110 lb is not fat, I'm 130 and I'm considered skinny.
2)Throwing up is not only discusting, but it ruins your teeth. Doing that gives you a chance of having rotted teeth when you're older.
3) Don't do anything like THAT to attract guys. If they think that someone 110 lb is fat then they need to get their eyes checked.
Don't do this just to impress them. 110 can be a healthy size depending on your body type. Plus there are other ways to lose weight, but by the sound of it you don't need to.
Just be careful and don't throw up.
2006-08-21 07:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by Kisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the chance of a skinny sexy pretty girl being so smart and funny? Hardly.
One day, when you wake up in a good mood, look into a long mirror and appreciate your curves. Love your body and learn how to realize the difference between a woman's body and a man's. We are meant to have an identified waist, a breast, and curves over the hips- WOW! Love your geography!
On a more important notice, whether you think you're fat or chubby, which I highly disagree with, learn how to take care of yourself. It's more important to smell nice than to look sexy but stinc. Create your unique and beautiful style.
If you think that you're not getting enough men, then practice tips on attracting them- it can be really simple, as simple as half a glimpse. If you think that you're not meeting the right guy, that's because of the above and the fact that he will find you, so don't over exhaust yourself!
2006-08-21 07:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by Aysha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, my advice to you is that people will treat you the way you want to be treated or the way you see yourself, don´t let anyone ever tell you how you should look, if you think you´re over weight think about asking a doctor and maybe try a healthy diet and exercise but only for your sake. Times change, styles change, hey, music changes! What´s in now may not be in next month! So lay out what are your motives, if it´s for a guy, screw em! Your body is valuable and beautiful no matter what any says! Getting info about eating disorders isn´t a bad idea, it´ll help alot.
2006-08-21 07:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you are saying, but if you think you are fat-- you need professional help before you become very ill. YOU ARE NOT FAT! You are a lovely young lady as you are! Place your worries on something more important and sincere than your looks. Be smarter than the guys if they are teasing you. Stop being single-minded on this silly idea and get on with a real life. There is whole, exciting world awaiting away from you for you to be an attribute to, get in it and get involved in a more mature and caring manner, young lady. Love the world and make your life count!
2006-08-21 07:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by rosesand51 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no, oh no, oh no. This is really serious, and please don't be offended by this but you really have to snap out of this. it seems like you could get Bulimia. bulimia is all mental, it's when you see yourself fat or something and you try to vomit out the food some you could stay skinny. No, no, no! That's not good. Not good at all.
Girl, just check out the charts, google all the info out...you are very light, and i doubt you're fat. 110 pounds is not fat! Just look in the mirror and say, "you're not fat. You look beautiful." Just keep saying this. And if you keep concentrating on weight, you're not going to get the nutritions you need, you're not going to grow properly. Without the nutrition, your body is going to be in big trouble, and you're going to end up going to the hospital like that. And besides, with all the vomiting, you can get a tooth decay. So always say to yourself, "I'm going to have perfect teeth. I will not force myself to vomit. I will be healthy, I'll eat so I'll grow and not upset my family and friends". And maybe to your best friends, say that you need help to snap out of bulimia. And you may not like it, but tell your parents, too. Make little rewards, count how many days you haven't tried to throw up. do things you enjoy to make you not think of your weight...
2006-08-21 07:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More information would be helpful. Do you consider yourself attractive for instance, and do guys like you, and do you have many relationships? Believe it or not I think this is quite common, remember you are not alone. There are many people to help you.
I think the key is try and get into a relationship and stay there. If you can't get into a relationship then you need to get to know guys and let them know how great a person you are. Remember, if someone won't date you just because they think you are overweight (remember that you are not) then they are not worth dealing with.
Well done for voicing your situation. This is how to deal with it, to talk. Also talk to friends, and family, if they know. These problems are too difficult to get through on your known. Best of luck.
2006-08-21 07:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, here is the deal. There is a percentage of guys out there that actually appreciate a person for them and not their size. I know it does not seem like it but they do exist. Also, these guys are not slobs themselves. These guys just have a mature sense of desire. So stop doing things to harm yourself to sustain somekind of standard that you think is necessary cause you see how they treat the slightly overweight in the movies. Those are scripts born from the imagination of a limited sect of the male population. Listen to those that tell you to be healthy and learn that you need to be (fat, thin, musclar, flabby) for you and noone else.
2006-08-21 07:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep throwing up and you won't have a tooth left in your head. The acids in vomit literally eat away at your teeth, causing them to first turn colors and them fall out. If you want to look good, be yourself, stop making yourself throw up and start exercising or playing a sport. Real guys like a confident girl, not a skinny girl!!!
2006-08-21 07:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by rasta-girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a classic case of bulemia.
Consider what is is more important to you...guys or life.
Hey, I have an idea...why not both? Get some help with your bulemia, guys will enjoy a healthy girl and you'll be able to live to enjoy the guys.
Good luck.
2006-08-21 07:32:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋