We have been dating for almost a year, and every time we have sex it will only last for maybe ten minutes at the most, and now we are down to having sex only once a week, he claims to still be completely in love with me but i dont understand. I have tried to address the issue with him but he gets mad and starts avoiding it. I really do love this man but i cant keep going on with this, and i assure you he is not cheating on me, please some one tell me how I can help him.
2006-08-21 07:18:47 · 10 answers · asked by meh? 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Its natural, you must be happy because some guys last for less than 2 minutes... Normal duration for a sex is between 30 minutes to 1 hour....And some new love birds can have sex whole night!! But that needs stamina, which most males lack! But lacking hormones and stamina doesnt mean you will not be able to extend the duration of sex... that needs some special medication but the most effective thing is, DELAY SPRAY search for it, It will help him a lot! It will increase the sex time dramatically from 10 to 30 minutes and it has no side effects!
There are also some pills which will increase the duration.. but they might have some side effects!
2006-08-21 07:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by Abdul S 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2014-09-29 15:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Premature Ejaculation (PE) is a very common and serious problem suffered by 1 out of 4 males. The causes of PE range from person to person and from psychological to physical. The average time a male suffering from PE is less than 5 minutes of intercourse before they ejaculate.
There are many supplements and techniques that are good for this issue. There are also medications, but those have side effects. I would recommend using 5-HTP 200mg, which is a serotonin precusor. A low serotonin level has been linked to PE, that is why doctors prescribed anti-depressants, 5-HTP will boost the serotonin levels naturally. You can also practice the Natural Ejaculation Control Tecnique.
2006-08-21 19:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by lignebur72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being quick in bed doesn't mean he doesn't love you or is cheating on you. he probably "gets mad" because he feels inadequate as a lover. Not saying your making him feel that way, but he probably feels a lot of pressure to live up to (satisfying you, hearing stories from his friends about how they "can go for hours").
What I recommend, is before the two of you actually have "intercourse" spend time with foreplay. and if he happens to get off before the two of you have sex, be understanding, give him a few minutes (have him go down on you or something like that) and I'm sure in a couple of minutes, he'll be ready to go again, and it will most likely be for a while.
2006-08-21 14:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're getting right to the "good stuff" then there is nothing wrong with ten minutes. If you want more intimacy then both of you should take part in prolonging the act of making love. Yes, I'm talking about foreplay. Touch each other, kiss each other, don't be shy! Tease each other a little. Have fun!
2006-08-21 15:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you do ...
First understand that he only knows one way to do it -- fast and brisk.
Second, he doesn't understand his body very well and is probably afraid he'll not stay 'stone cold hard'.
Third, men's egos are super-fragile when it comes to the bedroom -- so build him up.
Fourth, hate to be crude but get him off quickly and then have sex again ... it'll take much longer for him to finish.
Fifth, broaden the range of things you do -- positions, foreplay, game or role play, stuff like that.
Sixth, don't give up -- keep trying, it's a mere speedbump on the rocky road of life!
2006-08-21 14:51:42 · answer #6 · answered by wrathofkublakhan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It may not be his fault. Guys are made that way, so to speak. He has to take the time with you at foreplay to get you moving more than he is to get the timing right. You might try music to slow him down, a slow moving beat. Or, you can come first then let him come second, since you would take longer. There are ways to deal with the situation, just be creative and things will work out.
2006-08-21 14:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by Morphious 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it may not be his fault that he cant last long try doing some more floreplay for longer beforehand and just act like youre trying to pleasure him also so it doenst all rely on him making you happy and maybe pop a viagra in his vodka :]
2006-08-21 14:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by jaimeblondz 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you're just too good!!!
2006-08-21 15:05:06 · answer #9 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
pls attention
1-play wit his penis
2-suck his penis
3-then do
4-take good result
5-tell me your result
2006-08-21 14:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by psho1958@yahoo.com 1 · 0⤊ 5⤋