I think I have feelings towards a friend...
I do not know how he feel towards me...
I really think that he treats me only as a friend...
What should I do??...
Should I tell him or not??...
Or should I just keep quiet...
I am really confused...
Now is the beginning of the July-term holiday...
I am already missing him...
If he doesn't have feelings towards me,
I will be sad but I am just glad that he came into my life...
He really brighten it...
2006-08-21 07:01:07 · 19 answers · asked by Kaihoshi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thanx for the help guys...
But,I am afraid that if I tell him I have feelings towards him and later *BOOM* our friendship would never be the same again...
I hate losing friendship...
Friendship is the second most important thing in my life...
-KarinQ-
2006-08-21 19:52:47 · update #1
Maybe you could just ask him questions like what he looks for in a woman or what he sees in you to get an idea of how he feels about you. That way, it wouldn't be anything too bad to ask him that would make or break your friendship with him. Even if he doesn't seem to be interested in you as more than friends right now then remaining friends with him would give you the chance in the future for a relationship to develop. Especially if you are there for him when he needs someone to talk to about any problems he may be facing in his life.
2006-08-21 07:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by Roller Coaster Enthusiast 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have a friend that did go out with her friend it lasted 6 years between them but their friendship is ruined now, I would say don't go there unless he shows any sign to you if you like him that much, then you would have to decide whether you'd want it ,as its a 50/50 chance if it ended it wouldn't be the same
2006-08-29 14:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by jazzie_jue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well trust me when i say you have to tell them how you feel. I had a guy friend of mine tell me one day that he liked me in that way and I had the same feelings. We went out for three months and yea we broke up but out friendship remained the same and became even stronger. And trust me if you don't tell them your gonna spend the rest of your life wondering what would have happened if you had told them.
2006-08-29 07:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let him know. I've done it in the past. I told him because I wanted to know if he liked me too. If not then I would move on with finding someone else, and not sit around and wonder if he likes me or not. Today the friend is my husband. Good luck.
2006-08-29 12:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by SimpleGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your feeling towards him. Coz sometimes guys don't appreciate women telling their feeling about them. Just be yourself, wait for the right time.
2006-08-27 17:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by lhen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to know then ask him, that is the only way you could find out how he feels towards you.
2006-08-21 14:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u think of him wen u see ppl with boyfriends or girlfriends You Love him or if 2 weeks not seeing him is like 2 months not seeing him You love him!! If u love him TELL HIM
I think you love him ANd you should TELL HIM
2006-08-28 20:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, you can still be friends. Like the saying goes( you don't always get what you want )
2006-08-29 14:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by black jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many ways to check out
Ask him if he wanna go out or Something ... and let it be at night .. and at the end of the dinner or whatever .. if he kissed you that means he loves you ..
Another way
Ask yourself dont ask him ... Do you feel he loves you ??? ..
2006-08-29 13:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem. i asked his best friend and the guy turned out to like me..we were bestfirends as well. ask somebody that he trusts and u trust as well. i found out too late though so don't beat around the bush GOOD LUCK
2006-08-25 16:25:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋