My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 yrs and I am 31 weeks pregnant. We havent ahd sex in over a month and I am supper horny. Everytime i try to get something started he makes an excuse not to. Last night we tried to have sex but he couldn't get it up. The only other time this happens is when we had sex the night before. I think he is sleeping around on me what should I do?
2006-08-21 06:56:49 · 26 answers · asked by beth_6953 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like there is a huge lack of trust in your relationship. He is probably worried about hurting the baby so much that he is incapable of an erection. Sounds funny, I know, but some men do think it is possible for sex to affect the baby.
2006-08-21 07:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by sparkleandme4yrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite what propaganda may be floating around out there. Being pregnant is not sexy. Think about it, your sex kitten has become a baby making machine. Even so you have the right to have your needs fulfilled. I suggest you simply explain to him pregnant or not, your in the mood. Don't let your hormones make you insane and start making up stories about cheating when you have no other reasons than those you've mentioned.An additional thought, you may want to mention that before long, you will not want to, or be able to for along time. I.E. COME GET SOME WHILE YOU CAN!
2006-08-21 07:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not want sex right now because you are pregnant - he might fear he will hurt the baby (even though he won't). Maybe he just feels awkward about it and will get back in the groove after the baby is born. I don't think he's cheating. Enjoy the rest of your pregnancy - baby's almost ready to be born!!
2006-08-21 07:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn that is serious. No matter if you are pregnant or not your man should want to have sex with you whenever. And he cant even get it up! No something is wrong in the picture, unless he all of a sudden have a medical problem I would question him about that.
2006-08-21 07:08:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely he is wearing himself and his willy out in someone else's bed. That's why he has nothing left for you. You see, marriage has a purpose, which you are discovering now. Marriage would have given you and your child legal rights, which you do not now enjoy. Marriage increases the possibility that man and wife will remain true to one another. Living together, without benefit of marriage, is never a good option.
2006-08-21 07:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by In Honor of Moja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this your first child? because i've actually heard of many situations where during the first pregnancy many guys were afraid or having trouble w/ sex just because the woman's body changes a lot during pregnancy and they just weren't sure if sex was okay or if it would harm the child, etc. so i would ask him and maybe you guys can go get some info about sex and pregnancy. or if it turns out he is cheating try counseling.
2006-08-21 07:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely you have already got other reasons you think he could be cheating in you head... he spent to much time at the store... he has been on the phone more... he doesn't talk to me any more... I think you already have enough evidence in your head that you don't need to be asking complete strangers... If you don't have any other evidence then your hormones could be playing with you, so take a chill pill and calm down.
2006-08-21 07:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by kssunflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not, he might just be really really turned off by the fact that you are pregnant, and your body right now. Some guys get really weirded out by that (while others like it as a fetish). Try to seduce him doggy style, so your belly is not such a factor.
2006-08-21 07:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by Tunasandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have other evidence that he is cheating? If not, he may just be having a difficult time because you are pregnant. You two need to talk--about your desire to have sex and his reluctance to. Talking will help clarify what is really going on in his head and it will help you to better determine if he is cheating.
2006-08-21 07:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to conclusions just yet. Some men try to have sex with their pregnant women problem is he may feel uncomfortable doing so. Its his baby and maybe feels wierd and see it like this in his mind (my penis will touch my kid how sick am I?) Ask around you see that I am right..call that free 800 nurse no#
2006-08-21 07:05:44 · answer #10 · answered by Wiseguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋