I know that some of you may find this very wierd, but PLEASE no insulting comments. I am a single mother of 3 boys (ages 14, 12, 1), pregnant with 4th, and planning on many more. I am 36 weeks pregnant, getting very big.
On sunday, my 2nd son went to his friends home on a sleepover. My eldest sons friends family was coming over for dinner. I worked 7 hours nonstop preparing a meal for them, and finished 10 mins before they arrived. It was when they arrived that I realized that I forgot to breastfeed my 1 year old! I ran from the dinner table to get him and I had to feed him immediately! I realized that I had to do it at the dinner table, because neither my guests nor my baby could be left alone. So I ruefully took off my shirt and breastfed him, revealing my sore, naked breasts & my very pregnant belly. After that, my son's friend's father said "This food is disgusting. I feel like throwing up!"!! I just suddenly started to weep, and ran away. My son wont talk to me... what do i do?!
2006-08-21 06:44:14 · 6 answers · asked by ilina 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I recently got a divorce.
2006-08-21 06:46:54 · update #1
If the friend's father was at the table, why couldn't you have excused yourself for a moment? And why did your whole shirt have to come off. I breastfed 3 babies and never took my shirt off. I just raised it.
Maybe the friend's father would not have been offended if you had excused yourself from the table.
He may have been more understanding of the situation if you hadn't taken your shirt off.
Sorry, but you had it coming.
2006-08-21 06:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jessie P 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
honey close you legs and rethink the more babies idea. If you forgot to feed your son you have More then enough to keep you busy. You could have excused your self to the other room telling your guest you needed to feed your son because if was his feeding time. Anyone with manners would have respected that and not minded you stepping away. You say you could not leave you son alone that what was he doing as you were cooking and forgetting to feed him.
As for what to tell your son tell him you had a stupid moment and that is why you did that. Tell him you are very sorry.
2006-08-21 14:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
umm if this is real and your life is that hectic i hope you arent going to have more children, anyways are you rich or something? how do you plan on raising them to have a good education fun vacation etc.... i would have thought the food was disgusting as well.
2006-08-21 13:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by reb1den 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think your son not wanting to talk to you is the least of your problems and you should seek professional help immediately.
2006-08-21 15:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by WREAGLE 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I seriously doubt this. No woman I know would act like that at the table.
2006-08-21 13:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by Velken 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're joking, right?
2006-08-21 13:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by momma2mingbu 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋