But he keeps telling nme that the time is not right because of money issues.He wants to be with me but he's scared that he won't be able to give me what I want.Should I stay with him or move on?He's 37 with 2 kids(divorced),I'm 25!
2006-08-21 06:26:59 · 6 answers · asked by crazy_green_eyes 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweets: Do you WANT children?? If you dont know, or are unsure, or even if you do... You gotta move on. You cannot risk the rest of your life with someone who cant or wont have anymore children. Dont let someone else decide such a crucial decision for you. I left a man once who said he Didnt want anymore kids, (he had one daughter). I decided long ago that NOONE was making this IMPORTANT decision for me. Its my choice. NOT THEIRS!
2006-08-21 06:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to be realistic. It is very likely that he's done having children and satisfied with the 2 he has. There is never really "enough" money to have kids--that's kind of just an excuse. He may never want to have any more and you certainly can't count on changing his mind.
You need to decide if that would be okay with you, or if having children is important enough to break it off for a possible future, which includes a husband and children.
Don't just let life happen to you. Think about what you are doing and make a decision that you can live with. If you decide to stay, don't hold it against him if the two of you never have kids.
2006-08-21 13:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand that you want children. Don't give up on your husband just because of that. Stick with him through this situation. Also God is your answer If it is meant to be it will happen. Remember that every thing happens for a reason even if it is for the good or for the worst. Never question God and his decisions on life.
2006-08-21 13:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him you should stay with him and try to work things out but if you dont have lots of money you should wait on the child im only 12 but if i was 25 id be out at parties or just hangin out with my man you know wat im sayin? so make a good choice. remember once you have kids theres no turning back
!Good Luck!
2006-08-21 13:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by mraj4b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard situation...you will just have to step back and evaluate what you really want...or what you are willing to sacrifice for him...the way it sounds is your out of luck with having children with him...and you should probably move on
2006-08-21 13:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by turner32542 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he not have children, yet has 2 already? You could always try a sperm donor.
2006-08-21 13:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by Like Bugs Bunny on the moon... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋