someone please cheer me up?

Question

my ex and i broke up about 1 month ago, but it is starting to sink in now ... i can't stop crying

you folks are sooo wonderful!!!! thank you all sooo much for the kind words! :)

Answer 1

You better always keep in mind that

Whatever happens it's always for one's own good.

Here is a story to cheer you

Once there lived a king named Gunasekaran. He had an old minister named Tirumalai. He was very loyal to the king and would follow him wherever the king went. The king would call him as a parrot cause he would always be saying Whatever happens it's always for one's own good whenever something bad happens.

One day when king was practising sword fighting he had cut his thumb accidentally. The king was furious. When he met Tirumalai he asked do you still consider this as good. Tirumalai yet repeated the same words Whatever happens it's always for one's own good. The king imprisoned Tirumalai. Yet he said Whatever happens it's always for one's own good.

Then he went for hunting. There he was lost in the forest alone. He was very tired that he fainted. He was awoken by a tiger's grunt near his head. The tiger looked at his hand and passed away without eating him. Soon the soldiers found the lost king. The king told his soldiers what happened and asked the reason . One wise soldier replied that a tiger would not take a person as its prey if he is recently hurt and the king had his thumb cut in the very same morning.

When the king heard this he remebered Tirumalai and he immediately releasded him. Then he asked what good happened to Tirumalai. Tirumalai replied that since he was imprisoned him he escaped death ,if he wasn't imprisoned he would have followed the king wherever he went and the tiger would have eaten him for he had no fresh wounds.

So cheer yourself my friend

Answer 2

I feel your pain... It tok me a few months to get over who I thought was "the one"... In retrospect I learned two things... She was not the one and I'm glad to be clear headed enough to realise that now and two, I met someone that is simple the most wonderful person I have ever met.

Some say "things happen for a reason" and although you cannot see that now, you'll find that things do work out for the best. While you are in this place try focusing more on you as an individual and not a part of a couple. You need to be confident and capable by yourself. If you become strong enough to be alone, then you can do anything. You don't need to depend on anyone else. Sure, you find someone again and sooner than you think... but, that person will be interested in you because you are confident and have a high self-esteem.

Life is all about L.I.V.I.N.... don't dwell on the past, move on and be happy with yourself

Answer 3

Do you honestly think that after a month, he's sitting around crying about you? C'mon honey, you are better than this. Sure it hurts, but it's a part of life that we all go through to get to where we need to be. Pick yourself up, put down the hanky and get out of the house. So, he wasn't the one, learn from it and move on to the next. You'll never find your prince charming while your eyes are all puffy and you nose is filled with snot.(For some reason, it's a major turn off to men). Look at it this way: God opens many doors for us in life. When one closes, he opens another. It's just that sometimes the hallway between the two doors can be hell. You'll get through it.

Answer 4

There is nothing anyone can do to really cheer you up. It can be hard when you break up for some one you really care about or even love. It is sinking now because whatever you guys used to do is gone now. Everything you see or might do reminds you of him. Listen only time can heal your wounds. You have to get up and do things that will occupy your mind. You are allowed to reminisce about you and him together once in a while because it is only natural. However reminiscing 24/7 will only sink you into depression. You got to take it one day at a time. Eventually enough days will go buy and you'll find yourself a reason to go on and live your life.

Answer 5

ok here's what u do. sit down with a box of chocolates or anything chocolate will do. listen to love songs for about an hour and just really cry it out. don't allow yourself any more than an hour though. then get up, pull yourself together, go to the mall, get your hair and nails done, buy a new outfit and treat yourself to a nice dinner. watch the reactions of the male diners when u walk in looking like u are all that. then tell yourself u are definitely worth something better. if all else fails find a support group. life is worth living but u have to make it that way. lots of luck.

Answer 6

It is sad that you broke up. But you must go on trying to be happy.

A funny joke I heard was "He was the kind of friend that, if you are ever in a jam, he'd be there - with two slices of bread and some chunky peanut butter."

But seriously, you shouldn't feel bad about yourself. There are plenly of other guys, great guys, who will love you. It's as Mark Twain once said, "After all these years, I see that I was mistaken about Eve in the beginning; it is better to live outside the Garden with her than inside it without her."

You are special. Very special. Just put on a smile and the whole world will flock to you.

Tis easy to be pleasant
When life flows along like a song.
But the man worth while,
Is one who will smile,
When everything goes dead wrong.

Cheer up darling :)

Answer 7

hey, sorry to hear that. I don't know how u feel about him and why u guys broke up but whenever something bad happens to me I think that maybe very very deep down inside this is what I really wanted and this "thing" was being an obsticle for something even greater. You've probably heard this b4 from friends and whatnot but move on there might be something that YOU really need somewhere along the way ;-)
P.S. Always remember that even the smallest things matter so be attaintive

Answer 8

If only the mind and the heart were able to communicate better!!! Sorry about the loss... i know its very hard! But there is hope coming up!!! Time is the only healer when it comes to heart break...just think about the future and what it will bring to you. that should be enough to help cheer you up because the thing with the future is that you never know what it holds for you!!! it's all suprises from here on out!! enjoy it all and...lifes too short to worry about the past, and everything happens for a reason!!! so get out there and find your new reason to be happy!!! best wishes....

Answer 9

Hey, it's good to cry. But here's a tip for cheer up.

Take a cool shower using your FAVORITE shower gel or soap. Dry off, put on some really nice smelling lotion, and perfume. Put on your cutest undies set, and cute clothes (casual). Put on some niiiiiiiice make up.

Call your best girlfriend. If she's available, tell her you're picking her up.

Go out to the beach or a nice park. Enjoy the outdoors.

You broke up for a reason. Now, it's time to move on. Change your life. Volunteer at a children's center or for the elderly. Go out, meet NEW people. It'll be good for ya.

Have fun!

Answer 10

Just remember that you still have needs and you can find someone who can give them to you better than your ex. really, you are lucky b/c you can fall in love again and have that first kiss and make love for the first time and do all the firsts again. And always remember men are like buses another one will be along in 15 minutes. Just don't miss the next one b/c your still thinking of the last. Oh, and while you thinking of that eat some chocolate icecream while watching a brad pitt movie.