I'm a few years away from 30, and have been dating this guy a few months........I know he's the one. Okay, to be fair, I should tell you that I realize that I may sound silly, and that a relationship takes time to develop, but I just wish he'd ask me now, and then we could be engaged for about 8 months and then married! Is this possible?
2006-08-21 06:20:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Anything is possible!! Just take your time. Choosing the person that you marry is the MOST important decision you will ever make. I will be 30 in February and I am newly divorced and hope to marry again one day. Don't be a statistic like me. TAKE YOUR TIME. If is a good idea now it will be a good idea later. Good Luck!!!! By the way, I dated my ex for six years before we married and married to him for 7, nothing is guarranteed.
2006-08-21 06:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by drubaby32698 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say 30 as if that is ancient. What have you done in your life? Do you want to be married so far you are willing to risk a relationship that is just budding? He may ask you to marry him because he feels you are putting pressure on him and your marriage will be over before it started. Use the advice my mom gave me she said do everything you want to do before you get married because when you do marry all of your goals change. Be happy by yourself and then you can be happy with someone else.
2006-08-21 13:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything is possible. my fiance and i only knew each other 4 months before we were engaged and we've been engaged 1.5 year now and live together so time doesn't always matter but it has to be something you both want. if you pressure him he may run for the door or end up caving and proposing out of obligation. if it's right he'll propose when he's ready
2006-08-21 13:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i am sure that yrBFknows the biological clock is ticking on you, well if this is not a long distance realtionship and considering that youll spend a lot of time together he by now shoudl be sure if he wants to marry you. so i suggest, you give it another month or so, and then talk to him, ask him if he sees any future together with u and take it from there,
2006-08-21 13:29:40 · answer #4 · answered by haboba13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever will happen will happen...
even if you believe he's the one...
a decision should be mutual...
dont wait until he brings up the subject..
know how he stands about marriage...
what he thinks..
what kind of future does he want...
does any of this sound like what you want?
2006-08-21 13:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anythings possible. You shouldn't rush things though. Good things come to those who wait.
2006-08-21 13:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very possible to happen allow him to make that decision so he doesn't feel pressured it will all be okay reguardless
2006-08-21 13:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by krisforre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, you gotta ask him, not us. Personally I really feel you are in love with getting married, and not really him.
2006-08-21 13:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by cookies_n_cream0218 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May God help U, that is depends on him
2006-08-21 13:34:55 · answer #9 · answered by a_ebnlhaitham 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it girrll!
You are old enough to know what you are seeking in a mate.
I say go for it and not waste another minute single!
:-)
2006-08-21 13:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by x-factor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋