Ok so I was at my friends house and I was getting my pajamas and she saw my bra I really didn't care the next day at breakfast she whispered in my ear that the only reason I need a bra is because I was fatter than everyone else and at the moment I really didn't think much of it but when I was at home and remembered what she said it made me mad sad (etc.) Of course that was several years ago but after that and for the past several years she won't even look at me and shes avoiding me like the plague... I mean its not like I wanna be friends with her since she called me fat... but you wouldn't think that she would be mad at me for something she said and since she isn't talking to me neither is some of my other friends (and you'd think they'd be over it by now)
2006-08-21 06:18:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OK, well first (as I'm sure you already know) bra's are for breasts, not fat. If nobody else is wearing a bra and some of your "friends" are not talking to you since your "friend" said that thing to you, it may just be that they are jealous or ashamed that they don't have breasts too-and thus are not getting as much attention from boys as you are. Of course, the girl who said that to you in the first place may have started avoiding you because she realized how stupid and ignorant she was, and sometimes people just copy what others do and say. Just remember, weight is not a problem unless your doctor says it is, and even then, slight changes in diet and exercise will take care of it before it gets critical. Have fun, be healthy, and don't let others get you down.
2006-08-21 06:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it sounds like she was jealous because she hasn't filled out in certain areas where you would wear a bra. You're right! She wouldn't be mad at you for something she said that was hurtful. She is mad at you because she is jealous. Don't worry your little head about it though. She will mature (hopefully) and you will have found real friends by then. Don't hate her, but recognize that she's not really being a friend at all.
2006-08-21 13:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by radnimar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes a stupid girl. If all she sees when she looks at you is whats on the outside, then she will live, and die a stupid girl. There are so many girls out there that have TRUE beauty on the inside and it takes special friends, family and lovers to see that beauty (only if they are lucky to). I wouldnt worry about those snobs, their Kharma will come back to bite them. When I was younger, I wasnt the skinniest or prettiest girl, I blossomed almost over night and NOW, Im easily a 9.5 on a scale of 10. I cant go anywhere with out people telling me how beautiful I am... and truthfully... I could CARE less, because Im a good person, I do good things, and Im smart. And thats all that matters to me, and should be all that matters to my friends. NOT WHAT I LOOK LIKE.
2006-08-21 13:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably jealous at the time that you had something and now shes probably too embarassed to talk to you. Just forget about them, let them be mad for petty reasons.
2006-08-21 13:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes just jealous of you that you are not fat....and if your friends wont talk to you because of her there not much of friends now are they? And if it keeps bothering you just confront her and ask her y she did that, if she doesn't tell you maybe you should get better friends and forget about the ones who ditched you...u deserve better if they have no good reason to do that to you.
2006-08-21 13:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems she's jealous or envy of you with something. maybe the size of your breasts or making an excuse? only you know.
we know it well why bras are needed and for health reasons too. maybe she dont and cant wear one or no size for her in the market?
you know, its a prized asset of us and sometimes its starts quarells and discontentment among friends of our own kind too.
wear them less " prominent" next time with her that would make her less out of place.
2006-08-21 20:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really girl. Are you fat? I mean really fat? Like over 120 lbs.? If so well, I think tell someone about it. Jenny crieg is helpful if you know what i mean. so is Richard Simmons.
2006-08-21 13:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are not talking to you over something as silly as this, they were never true friends in the first place.
2006-08-21 13:25:19 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just mad at you cause your bra size is bigger than hers. She is just a bad apple that needs to be thrown away, far away.
2006-08-21 13:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dose she have a bra if don't maybe she jealous that you have a bra and she don't if she was really a friend she wouldn't call you fat
2006-08-21 13:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by ......... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋