What is a good way to "flip the switch" on a woman which you are in a long term relationship, or marriage with. Example: not kissing, etc, but choclates, icecream, flowers?? I hate to be corney...what really works, you know...softens up the clay???
2006-08-21 06:04:44 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My hubby's a real romantic so he does little things that really turns me on then it turns to sex... Like the other night out of the blue after mowing the lawn he told me to come outside and we sat on our swing and he pulled out 2 flute glass's and a bottle of champagne and toasted to us for no reason, what a surprise and what a darling , boy I made sure he had a good evening, if ya know what I mean.....LOL
2006-08-21 06:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with "R Squared" I love it when my husband "use to" write me letters. It expresses how he feels and it's something I get to keep forever. When it's a holiday (anniversary, valentines day) I always hope no matter what he gets me that there is a romantic card (with a love letter inside) or a love letter itself.
I think that's a good way to go!
Hey miaRules has an awesome idea too! A little alone time if she's always with the kids is great!!!!
Good Luck!
2006-08-21 13:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by ******* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything that shows you have been listening to her and paying attention to what she likes. That will be different for different women. For example, I don't wear much jewelery, and it doesn't mean much to me, but I love flowers, especially potted ones that I can enjoy for several weeks and then plant in the garden. I don't eat much sugar, so occasionally my husband will come home with some sugar-free candy or dessert. I really like it when I get a call, "Don't fix dinner tonight. I'll bring home something special."
You need to figure out what the woman in your life likes.
2006-08-21 13:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my husband helps out around the house and really listens and contributes to a conversation. Flowers for no reason would be a nice touch.
2006-08-21 13:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All those things are nice. A soft blow in the ear is always interesting. There are women out there that just think it is fabulous when their man does the chores, stuff like that. My girlfriend is that way. She would pass up a dozen roses just to have her husband do the dishes or laundry.
2006-08-21 13:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by shewolf 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Clean the house for her, cook dinner and take care of the kids have a nice bath with scented oils waiting for her, give her a back massage and you will probably be the happiest man around.
2006-08-21 13:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing my boyfriend ever did was, when I graduated from college, we went back to his house after the celebration and he sat on the couch, turned me towards him and said, with the biggest, most adoring eyes, "I'm so proud of you. You're so beautiful and I love you." That's when I knew I loved him because he made me feel like the only person in the world.
2006-08-21 13:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by krd12 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Doing one of my regular jobs. I come home and the house is miraculously "clean!" Taking time to play with the kids. Working on something outdoors in things like shorts and a muscle tee.
2006-08-21 13:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I like it when my boyfriend writes me a love letter, kinda like the ones you wrote to a girl/boy that you like in elementry school. And give her 1 flower, not a rose, but a daisy or something simple.
Good luck and have fun!!
2006-08-21 14:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by jennifer_spanky2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to her talk. When she is talking out loud about a new product or new food she wants to try, make a note of it. Go get it and surprise her with it. Tell, "Even when you think I'm not listening to you, I am." Give her a warm hug afterwards. You'll be the man!!!!!!!!
2006-08-21 13:13:13 · answer #10 · answered by tyrawooley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋