i loved a person wh loves me so much that nobody lse wud do to me.but suddenly one day he told that his mom was not well and had to amrry some girl in his relations.
so had arranged for his marriage for the sake of his parents who told him that they wud die if he will not marry.
after his marrige he came to me and told me to continue with him.
2006-08-21 05:49:06 · 13 answers · asked by sowmya_bvs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Anyone who allows parental pressure to influence him totally above and beyond his common sense is not a very practical person, and probably from some third world country no yet living in this modern world of FREE CHOICE. And any woman who seriously considers him as you say "nobody lse wud do to me" is very immature emotionally and better wise up and get over him. Especially when she says "i dont like to live my life ? i wan to die/ suicide", honey nobody I repeat NOBODY is worth committing suicide over, what do you think he is a GOD?
Say good bye and good ridance to him...and ask the one and only God to show you the "WAY" to real happiness.
2006-08-21 05:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by oldtimer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break it off and treat yourself with some respect. He has a wife, and he needs to be with her. You need to turn your attention in some other direction.
Find some ways to get involved with helping someone else. For example, you could volunteer at an organization that helps people in your community. If you stop focusing on your problems and focus on helping other people, that will go a long way toward pulling you out of your depression. Working with other volunteers is also a good way to make some new friends.
So pull out the phone book at start looking for where you might help out in your community. Or look around for a neighbor who needs help and offer your assistance. You will feel better about yourself, and this guy won't look so appealing any more.
2006-08-21 13:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all how old are you .you have me very concern.its not everyday that you will find a question like this.i have to say right of the back if you believe in prayer do so quick.take time to really think about what your saying is this talk out of anger or is this where your really at if it is then i say you need somebody you can talk to.because no matter what someone eles says to you its going to take the work of the lord and only the work of the lord to heal your pain.but please dont feel your life is over hold on and stand strong and things will take a turn for the better.yes it hurt to lose love but to find a new found love comes with a wonderful feeling .dont give up.
2006-08-21 13:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by she devil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What country are you in? This is ridiculous. What the hell does getting married to a woman the mom picked out have to do with their dying? Care to tell me HOW they would die if he didn't marry her? I love how parents control their kids with guilt trips! This is priceless! I would have told them to make sure their stuff was inorder cause I wasn't marrying her. And ask them where their will was located. For anyone out there going through this, I say, call their bluff! Then this guy has the balls to want to carry on an affair with you. Get some proof and tell his wife. She might divorce him and your problem will be solved! He'll be free to marry YOU!
2006-08-21 13:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by pinkrosegreeneyes bluerose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be stupid! u have so many things in life to live for. Hey if that person really loved you he wouldn't have hurt you. so hear what... plenty of fish in the sea, try again and don't be telling yurself that you can't love anyone else. analyse the situation and think twice before you even want to do something this dumb. killing yourself wouldn't solve anything. live life to the fullest and enjoy your youth!!! good luck.a lot of people are counting on you and you don't know it!! smile things will get better..
2006-08-21 13:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by trini girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will tell u one. what a love if he chosed sake his parents then ur happienes. i dunno... think he is kind of some muslim, am i right? and **** yes u r in love. and having bad times and i m sorry for that to u. but now he ask u to continue. does he wanna hurt u more?? what is he thinking about?? did u tell him what he did to u?? he wanna hv all. his parents.... god but not they should choose by him. he should grew up. culture.. but **** that culture... what a rights have parents to choose a wife/housband for their childs.. thats unserious... and he love u.. ok tell him then one: divorce and go with me. cous hun no sense to be with married man. he will just hurt u more in relation like that as his wife. this guy hv to be real man and deceide what he wanna from life. is he a kid to let parents deceide about his life and all.... taht topic made me angry, cous all ppl todays **** love... sweety i hv heard quiite same story. yea usually parents there telling that they will die if.... they will not die. talk him and told him he gonna loose u. that he hv to choose, taht u love him but u can't live this way, and then time... cous so easy u will not forget, but don't do some stupidness. i know life without love hasn't any sense... but be strong. and think he loves u not her. and fight till it possible then if u will not win go away and try live again.... take care.. hope all good for u
2006-08-21 13:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by kolo molo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont die all u need is a shrink or sum therpist u have 1 life live it !
2006-08-21 12:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on - you need to focus on the good things in your life not the bad taking your life will not solve anything for you - you will only cause pain to others(family)
2006-08-21 12:57:07 · answer #8 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no person is worth killing yourself over.
You have too much to live for - your family - the guy that you're supposed to be with is out there somewhere...
2006-08-21 13:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were put here for a reason, so find that reason and forget about him.
2006-08-21 12:58:08 · answer #10 · answered by bprice215 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋