My bf told me where he was when I called (with his family) however I just found out that he wasn't because one of his family members called me looking for him at 6 in the morning. Does this sounds like he's lieing and out doing other things????? I leave for college next week we've been together 3 years. Should I let it go???????
2006-08-21 05:45:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hello, yes let him go. You are starting a new phase in your life. With college you need more time to focus on your future and classes then what your guy may or may not be doing. Let him know you caught him lieing to you and end it. Good luck with college.
2006-08-21 05:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by sadeyes99_2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Successful I just read another one of your question and it seems like to me you are worried that you may lose this guy since you are going off to college, I would be puzzled to after I found out my man wasn't were he told me but you will never know because guys dont admit to their wronginess but don't be insecure about him just because he wasn't there. Then it all depends on when you had called him and he was over there so don't be insecure about him because he could not be doing anything. Just let it go for right now? Think about it when you leave for college is your college close to were you and him will still be able to be together or it is so far away and you feel that he is going to move on. You have alot to think about, but b4 you leave sit him down and discuss those issues with him so you want have no worries. GOOD LUCK:)
2006-08-21 13:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you already know he's not being completely truthful. Anything that isn't the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth is a lie. You shouldn't just let it go, but you probably shouldn't jump to conclusions. He may have just went out with his friends. I'd let him know that he shouldn't have any secrets from you. You shouldn't have any secrets from him either. If you have nothing to hide, hide nothing. Also inform him that if he doesn't tell you something it makes you think there's more to it when it could be nothing at all. Make him comfortable enough with you that he doesn't feel the need to lie about anything. God bless you.
2006-08-21 12:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by radnimar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the family member wasn't actually at his house. or there was a family thing ur boyfriend doesn't need u to get involved in. since u've been together for so long, i think the best thing to do is tell him about it. when u see him, don't yell or be suspicious. just tell him, hey so-and-so called this morning looking for u. how come? by now u should know when he is lying and telling the truth.
good luck
2006-08-21 12:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by Unicorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its a lie, what do you mean ?? He said he was with family but family called you looking for him. What else do you think it could be ?? If I was you I would leave for college as a single girl and have the time of my life.
2006-08-21 12:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be a lie or the family member that called was not really a family member
either way sounds like he is up to no good
2006-08-21 12:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by leoslady3900 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go straight to the source. Ask whatever family members he was supposed to be out with if that was where he was and if he wasn't with them then as hard as it is, you have to let him go.
2006-08-21 12:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him girl! Go to college single...you don't need to have a bf that is going to lie to you while you are away at college.
REMEMBER: If you love someone so much then let them go.....if they come back, it was meant to be.
2006-08-21 12:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by jennifer_spanky2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let go of the issue but if it really bothers you, confront him in a very jovial way so it wouldnt be like you are accusing or suspecting him. you can really make fun of it and if he is guilty, he will apologise and you shld truelly forgive him 4 dat
2006-08-21 12:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by MissyFlexsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably lying to you...Maybe this break when you go off to college is good for your relationship..Don't let go..but just be careful because he may be up to something.
2006-08-21 12:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋