Please also tell me whether you're a guy/girl, and whether your friend(s) is a guy/girl. Any gender differences in how people argue with their same-sex friends?
2006-08-21 05:42:57 · 8 answers · asked by euges116 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I got into a big fight with my best buddy
after my girlfriends purse was missing all
her change and her rolling papers
and he had them in his jacket pocket
and insited they were his
even when on the inside flap of the papers
it said pick up kotex.
2006-08-21 05:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by rottentothecore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am female and my friend is female. Many years ago we got into an argument over a guy. She wanted to date him and he wanted to date me. She wanted to get into a physical fight. I thought the whole thing was ridiculous and walked away but first I told her if I had known she liked him I never would have dated him. When arguing with a guy I tend to have more emotion.
2006-08-21 12:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gay, male friend told me that I snored and that it was not ladylike. I refused to believe him, then one day he taped me sleeping and I had to admit that what I heard was definitely not ladylike and it caused me to re-think sleepovers with someone I really liked.
There is a difference with same sex arguments. For me, a same sex argument will never escalate, I don't allow those arguments to get passed a certain level without agreeing to disagree. Why? I don't know, probably because to me whatever the source of the disagreement is not worth losing a good friend.
2006-08-21 12:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was dating a guy. My best friend slept with his brother and got pregnant and had his child. She was married to someone else at the time. I told my boyfriend who later became my first husband . She found out and said if her husband found out and committed suicide (he has mental problems) that it would be my fault. She had another child who may not have been her husbands and had to have an abortion because one child wouldn't have been white. That was 3 years ago and I haven't seen or talked to her since.I think women hold grudges longer against other women.
2006-08-21 12:53:12 · answer #4 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy and I got in a silly *** arguement with one of my guy-friends about baby bears. I argued that, without exception, all baby bears are cute. He challenge my notion and actually got VERY angry at me. He kept saying that his uncle had a baby grizzly and it was ugly. I challenged him on this. I was trying to make him mad at one point and I told him that "I read in a book that all baby bears are cute." He was pretty close to kicking my *** by the time the arguement was over. I was riding in the car with him and he didn't talk to me for several hours.
2006-08-21 12:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl. Friend is a girl. And the argument was about she found out that I was smoking, when I lied to her and told her that I wasn't. Oh and then there was the one with my other friend that was about when I told her that she was acting like a "B" and she punched me. lol. But that was a long, long time ago. We grew up.
2006-08-21 12:53:02 · answer #6 · answered by ~p♥kes~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was with my guy friend, and when I was taking a nap he took 2 brand new flicks (still wraped) and never told me until I confronted, then he told me that he had taken more stuff waiting only until I was sleeping. I'm handicapped. Yet, he still didn't returned them until I asked for them back.
2006-08-21 12:50:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is just me, and not something i'm proud of, but i once was so angry at my friend i completely ignored her for like 7months... i'm a guy by the way... and she...obviously was a girl... (as i said am not very proud of that... )
2006-08-21 12:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by wad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋