I had a total abdominal hysterectomy about a 11/2 years ago I have accepted the no babies,I am dealing with the weight gain, its my sex drive I am having a problem with. I JUST DON"T CARE ABOUT IT ANYMORE. I tried talking to my doctor all she did was change my hormones (didn't help) I have been to a shrink( still no help) going off my hormones is not an option then all i become is a crying idiot. I am at my wits end my husband loves me and I him but he just can't understand I don't want to have sex not with anyone I don't even wnat to masturbate it is like to much effort forget it. I have half joked with my husband to go get it from someone else but deep down inside I am half serious. I am only 43 this shouldn't be happening to me I am soppose to be enjoying this part of my life no more bloating cramping I can wear white anytime I want to and I am supose to be able to immitate rabbits with my husband with no worries. Can someone please give me some ideas of what to do?
2006-08-21 05:42:14 · 2 answers · asked by lynx 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
A lot of times women associate getting a period with being femine and sexually attractive when we are in our reproductive years. Hormone therapy should help it may just take a few tries tinkering with your levels. Also the mental stigma that maybe you are not a whole hearted female after a hysterectomy could be there, its a lot to deal with. I would make sure your physical needs are looked after first. I am in a medically induced state of menopause at 33 and the hormones are a huge part of the change, took me 2 years to get it right and feel good and attractive again. Dont rule out joint therapy with your husband because the problem effects you both!!
2006-08-21 05:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Cherry_Blossom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but thanks for 2 pts!
2006-08-26 04:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by Grim Reaper 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋