i'm 13 and i'm going to be in 8th grade, all my friends and clasemates developed there chest and i'm flat, flat!!! i'm not that flat, i have a little but it's not normal. i've already got my period and everything but all my friends are a size A,B or C. what can i do? is it time to vist the doctor or what? please. i thought that maybe this summer i would developed but i was wrong. please.
2006-08-21 05:36:37 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
People develop at different rates. There's nothing wrong with you. I got my period early but didn't develop at all until high school. You can wear a padded A cup bra if it really bothers you, but try not to obsess over it.
2006-08-21 05:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by Naomi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 12 i was sooo upset when i was flat chested but soon to find out what i wanted so badly could be so bad. by the time I was 15 I was a D and it just went up from there. so be happy to be flat. Cuz I wish now I would have been flat than what I got. I have seen where some people say it all depends on your moms size and that is not always correct because my mom is only a C and I am way past that now.
2006-08-21 06:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by jazzy75mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've already gotten your period, then you should be seeing your doctor al least once a year already. But don't worry about it so much In school, I was the girl who got very developed first and fast. It was awful and horrible. You have to look at your body type and size. Is your Mom very big? Are you a very slender girl? You may never get very big. Tyra Banks has a beautiful body, and she's not that big. If I were you I'd look at some molded, padded bras. They'll go with your body and they'll give you a nice shape, And they come in all kinds of sizes, both cups (A,B,D) and in measurements like your waist size. Nowadays there is no reason for you not to feel beautiful no matter what your size. You're luckier than girls who are big and want to be small. There are options to be bigger, but not allot to be smaller. And don't worry. Your situation is definitely normal.
2006-08-21 05:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by kealey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal there is nothing to worry about. Sometimes its hereditary. You could go to a genecologist to make u feel better. In time ur chest will develop. Some people are just gonna have a small chest. Ur chest will either grow later in life, or is just growing at a very slow speed, making ur chest smaller than the other girls.
2006-08-21 06:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry soon youmight just have a bigger chest then them. I first got my period when I was 12 or 13 and i barely had a chest while everyone else did. After 8th grade summer they blew up to a C ouyt of nowhere. They will come. I though my wouldnt
2006-08-21 06:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by ilovemybabies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the same way. Don't worry about boobs. They will come in just the right size for your build. While you are smaller thatn the others just remember that when palying sports or running you don't have to have them flopping up and down and getting your way! Alos when you get older they will not hang down to your waist like the big busted girls! You will always appear slimer also. There are many reasons that smaller is better. They are the appropriate size for what they are needed for. God doesn't make mistakes! So be satisfied and go worry about math or history!!!
2006-08-21 06:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt worry about it hun. some girls just take a little bit longer than others to develop. i was the same way. i am 15 now and i just got into a size B over the summer. some people dont even get over size A. ask you mom about it and ask her about her sizes as a young girl. some times and most times it is hereditary.
2006-08-21 07:22:17 · answer #7 · answered by fesha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is different, my best friend is 16 and still hasnt developed a chest she is flat flat flat just like you! But nothin is wrong with you, your day will come one day..!
2006-08-24 18:54:09 · answer #8 · answered by HUNNiiE DiiP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls are big and some are small. some girls develop early and others late. dont worry. you will develop at your own rate and even if you dont end up having a big chest its ok. you dont need it for people to like you. most girls with big chests get the wrong kind of attention from boys anyways.
2006-08-21 06:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by bambi..♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
itz ok ppl develop at different speedz my is bout 2 turn 14 soon and where goin 2 da 9th grade she has her perid but she still a lil flat and most girls arent in my skool so some ppl develop faster then others
2006-08-21 06:18:10 · answer #10 · answered by savannah_kalita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋