After 8 months with a girl she is waiting me to ask her to marry.Everything was good in our relationship except tht she is not as beatiful as I want my wife to be.I feel guilty to tell her goodbye. Is beaty very important in marriage?Or I will get used to her face later?She loves me very much and wants me only.I can not decide and I am fighting myself.what shoul i do.I fear that I will be repentant later if I marry her.
2006-08-21 05:29:12 · 15 answers · asked by manly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I respect that your being honest about such an issue....in the long run of things outer beauty isn't whats going to be a top of the list priority, however, I understand your concerns...so long as this person can bring out the best in you, then I think its most important that you not consider appearance to be a major factor...but if its going to make you less appreciative, not as proud of your women or even ashamed then she doesn't need someone in her life like that either....perhaps I am trying to say if appearance off sets the balance in your relationship then break it off...but if there is so much more than outer beauty that makes this relationship what it is...then continue to love her for it.
2006-08-21 05:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel guilty. If you loved her and had the spark, regardless of her not being perfect you would want to stay with her. For you to ask this question means that you don't have emotional depth and that if you have to wonder about this it means that you wonder if there is something better out there. Careful about what you do..... those beutiful women that you think about want emotional depth as there are a lot of pretty boys out there. You have someone who loves you. Step away and you may wake up one day wishing that you didn't leave. Obviously you have a lesson to learn in life so leave her, let her find the right person as she deserves it. Yes you should feel guilty for allowing this to get this far because you strung her along. You screwed up and nothing is left to be done other than leave and let her find a mature guy.
2006-08-21 13:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by jackson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical attraction is very important to men unfortunately. If you're not feeling it now, you probably won't feel it later and you most certainly won't feel like she's the most beautiful woman you've ever seen. Plus, it won't help that you'll feel like you're settling for a while. Do her a favor, don't string her along, and waste her time. The truth is, there will be someone else who thinks she is the most gorgeous woman.
2006-08-21 12:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A physical attraction needs to be there if you plan on spending the rest of your life together. Can you imagine looking at her ugly face for the rest of your life? If not then don't marry her. And don't listen to others that say beauty doesn't matter. It does. You need to have that physical attraction. This is the last piece you will be getting for the rest of you life.
2006-08-21 12:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jewells 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not ready!!! Has her face been a problem before? I think u shouldnt of got this far and now when times get serious u want to bring up that fact about her face. This is so wrong. U lead her when u weren't happy. Think about all this before going further with this relationship.
2006-08-21 12:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the beauty that matters, it's how "attracted" you are to the other person, which includes physical, emotional and intellectual attraction. Obviously, you're not attracted to this woman enough - which would make marriage difficult.
One *can* be attracted to someone who is not "beautiful"; it's much more than just beauty.
2006-08-21 13:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive me for saying this, but you are such a shallow person. you have no business getting married if you think that the physical attributes of your partner is paramount to your relationship.
try to go beyond the physical. get to know the person inside :)
2006-08-21 12:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of the funniest questions I've ever seen! Can't help u.
2006-08-21 12:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by Julie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can decide what to do and if beauty is more important than what you have with her. how do you know somoene more beautiful will come along and want you like she does??
2006-08-21 12:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by prettykittybangs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve her. Don't marry her you will only cause her grief. Leave her and do her a favor.
2006-08-21 12:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by Badkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋